Gender: Female
Age: 14
Member Since: March 29, 2012
Answers: 14
Last Update: July 9, 2012
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hi so i'm a girl, almost 13 going into 7th grade.
i had a dream about this guy,he's going into 8th grade. he's my really good friend. then i realized i liked him all along and thats part of the reason i broke up with my bf (over the summer).
i like him because he is so sweet and always gives me cute things and always pays attention to me. i dont know if he knows broke up with my ex-bf (its summer) but when we go back to school i really want to tell him or make a move (fast b/c other girls like him but dont know him well) but i dont want to ruin our friendship! how can i tell him i like him or make a move without ruining our friendship?? (link)
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If he really pays attention to you and gives you cute things then i think the feeling are mutual. You should definately make amove because if you dont then you will regret and and always think what if he liked me back too? If hes really your friend then even after telling him you like him & he doesnt feel the same way, your friendship wont be ruined.
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I have best friend which is a guy, he did something that upsets me. Well, he just made me look like a foolish girl. He wants me to be his BFF again but i made a condition.He will write a letter to me of how important our friendship is, He didn't wrote any but we are normal friends. (link)
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If the thing he did was really mean or rude than i dont think you should be BFF's again. Maybe just give time to your normal friendship and see what happens.
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The guy that i have just seen around well we was talking tonight and he asked me to come over so we can just talk. So we just talk and what not and listen to music and got to know each other some and He is 16 and I'm 21. We live in the state of south carolina. Is that wrong? We both are gay. But our parents kinda sorta know. But he says he trusts me and I trust him. He asked for cigarettes and should i get if for him? He asked me out tonight. I really like him and he likes me. I'm not sure what to do. help please. (link)
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I dont think you two dating could really be a problem. If you love each other than no matter what the age is. I think you should go and just hang out, but i dont think giving him cigarettes is a very good idea.
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I'm a 13 year old girl. I like this guy from school. At first we started off real close friends and then I told him that I liked him. He said he only liked me as a friend and began avoiding me from then on. He began seeing another girl and I'm really confused and hurt. After school he avoids me as well. We live on the same street and every time when he's outside and sees me playing basketball he'd go back home and pull down the curtains. And also at school, when I'm sitting in the cafeteria near where he and his mates are sitting, they'd go and find another spot. I really like him, and I suppose he just thinks I'm being stupid.
Any advice available? (link)
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Hey dont worry. Hes being very immature. Im sure you will find another guy. If you cant stop thinking about him then you should catch up with him and tell him that him avoivding you is bothering you and maybe tell him you would like to bo friends again and tell him youre over him.
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Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years and we both really love eachother. But i just got a cast and im on my period so i feel really akaward around him. I am going to the movies with him tomorrow with him and my other friend but im scared im going to feel very akaward around him. Also my mom dosent know we are "boyfriend and girlfriend". Please help! (link)
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Just because youre on your period doesnt mean anything. If you have been with him for 3 years then theres no reason to feel awkward. And you should tell youre mom that you have been dating especially after 3 years.
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I fell in love with my best friend (who is a boy) 2 weeks ago. How will I ask him out? Will he laugh at me if I do? (link)
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Thats too sweet. If hes youre bestfriend and you too are happy together and hang out then i dont think hes laugh at you. 2 weeks in too little time to fall in love. Maybe you should tell him stuff like "haha youre so cute" and other things and if he responds to you that way then im sure he loves you too. Hope everything works out for you.
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What is the quickest,easiest way to commit suicide? (link)
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Why are you talking about suicide? Youre life is to precious on wasting it. There are so many better alternatives to life then suicide. Everyone feels this way once in your life, but it doesnt mean you give up. Whatever youre going through im sure you can work it out. Ending youre life is DEFINATELY not an answer. Please dont do anything to yourself.
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I dated a guy when I was 16. We dated for 2 years breaking up once and then getting back together. He was my first for everything (bf, kiss, make-out, sex) and no doubt I was absolutely in love with him. I had a rebound boyfriend a few months after (which only lasted like 3 months) and then was single for about a year because I knew I had to be. I'm now almost 20 and in a relationship and its been about 6 months and I love this guy but in a different way than I did my ex. He's so sweet to me and I love him but I just don't feel the way I felt about my ex. I wanted to know is there a different feeling you get from your first then the rest of your boyfriends? I love the relationship I'm in now but I don't want to be unfair if something important is missing. My ex is in a relationship now, but still. I just can't stop thinking about it. I'm just so confused. Please help. (link)
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You cant stop thinking about your ex because he was your first love and your gonna feel that way for the rest of your life. Noone can really get over their first love, but you cant keep on holding on. If theres no way you adn your ex can be together then its best to move on and find better guys. If hes sweet and if you love him then stay with him and you wont regret it.
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when do you stop fighting for love? not fighting like yelling, but trying to make things work out. we're still very much in love, but were in a difficult situation. this has been going on for months. things have been really bad, but i'm not sure i want to give up on us. when do you give up on love? is it when you forget what youre fighting for? thanks (link)
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You stop fighting for love when you realize that you can be okay without seeing the person everyday. When you can stop thinking about the other person. When everything you see doesnt remind you of him/her. When you would be happier without the oher person. You should try the best you can to work things out and if your lover doesnt try to fight back for you, then you can give up and move on.
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does every girl finger?
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Definately not. Some girls simply find it gross and uncomfortable. It is although a very safer alternative to having sex.
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I'm scared of every single thing. Like, really! Like when someone puts up their arms quickly I step back fast, you know? And i'm scared of bugs when i cant sleep, i'm scared of clowns, i'm scared of being bullied, i'm scared of sitting by the door in classes, ect. Why is this? And how can I fix this?
I heard of a "worry stone" but I don't know where to get one... (link)
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Everyone is worried about something, its how you handle it. Most people are scared of bugs, clowns, and everything else you listed. Everyone has deep fear, but remeber you cant let fear rule your life. My teacher told me that you only live once and you have to make many memories before you die, either you rule your life or you let fear rule it. I used to super scared of being embarrased, bullied, bugs and everything, but now i understand that there really nothing you need to worry about. I can hold a spider ad even touch one without being scared. Tryto think "I AM GONING TO RULE MY LIFE." before you do something and remember youre probably not going to come across those things anyways. hope this helped.
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i like this boy, and i told him. I think he still likes me but if not how do i get him back? im 13 . (link)
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Honey, if youre 13 then you should stay calm and not worry at all. Lifes to long to worry about some guy youre only gonna date for a couple of years. Be calm and dont give up because im sure he loves youre beautiful face to.
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My school picture day is tomorrow and I've started to panic because I just found out today. I'm in the 8th grade and every one of my school pictures has been ugly except the ones from 1st grade down. I am in no way saying that I myself am ugly because I know that I'm a very beautiful girl. I just really want one nice picture before I leave my school. Usually my eye twitches involuntarilly or my hair tries to go afro on me. You can probably tell why I didn't like those pictures. Am I making too big a deal of the situation? I'm very sorry this was so long. (link)
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Everyone gets nervous before taking a school picture, its completely normal. Make sure you stay calm while taking the picture so you look normal. Also, if youre beautiful(which every girl is) then people will see you for you, not youre school pictures. Hope it helped.
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I have naturally pin straight hair. I'd like to get a product that would make my hair like curly, wavy, and/or scrunchy would I put it in my hair. (Like during a shower or after). Curly my hair and dong things like that to it take a lot of time and I get tired just wearing my hair straight every day. So if anybody can suggest to me some good products that know that work (And are affordable), that would be great. Thanks! (link)
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Hey, listen many girls are dying to get youre pin straight hair. I haven extremely curly hair and i take 1 hour every morning just to do my hair. Tey spraying tre semme extra hold hair spray and scrunching hair. Should work perfectly. Spray it after shower and towel drying youre hair.
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