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tonight it happen


Question Posted Thursday May 3 2012, 3:03 am

The guy that i have just seen around well we was talking tonight and he asked me to come over so we can just talk. So we just talk and what not and listen to music and got to know each other some and He is 16 and I'm 21. We live in the state of south carolina. Is that wrong? We both are gay. But our parents kinda sorta know. But he says he trusts me and I trust him. He asked for cigarettes and should i get if for him? He asked me out tonight. I really like him and he likes me. I'm not sure what to do. help please.

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DopeSwagg answered Wednesday May 9 2012, 3:31 pm:
Well I think you should end your relationship with him because as a 16 year old, he is still mature and growing and he dosen't fully understand his sexuality.

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ericsmith answered Monday May 7 2012, 11:47 am:
I believe it is wrong on your part because as a 16 year old minor he is not completely sure about his sexuality right now even if he thinks he is and you as an adult are taking advantage of him by getting a hold of him and helping to shape his feelings and thoughts before he grows into an adult and even if he was completely sure about his sexuality you are still to old to be spending time with a sixteen year old boy who is not your relative. he can't even go to many of the places that you can go to and it is illeagle for him to do many of the things that you can do. seeing how you are both gay and he is a sixteen year old boy your interest is obviously somewhat romantic and at his age it is wrong for you to even entertain the idea of being with him. you have to much life experience to be hanging around that child, he is not ready to hang out with someone with your life exp. email me at ericsmith@yahoo.com and tell me what you think of my answer. thanks

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awesomeal16 answered Saturday May 5 2012, 8:27 pm:
In certain states that is considered statutory rape! I recommend not going down that road! You can get in some serious trouble....Also! Do not buy him cigarettes! This is very much illegal and you can get in serious legal troubles! Do not I repeat do not buy him any!

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AMSxO answered Thursday May 3 2012, 5:58 pm:
One, that is illegal. That fact aside it sounds like he might be using you. Don't buy him cigarettes, don't do much for him and just figure out what he really wants until you get that bond and trust going....don't fall for the crap.

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ifyouneedme1 answered Thursday May 3 2012, 4:28 pm:
I dont think you two dating could really be a problem. If you love each other than no matter what the age is. I think you should go and just hang out, but i dont think giving him cigarettes is a very good idea.

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