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I like this guy but he doesn't like me...
I'm a 13 year old girl. I like this guy from school. At first we started off real close friends and then I told him that I liked him. He said he only liked me as a friend and began avoiding me from then on. He began seeing another girl and I'm really confused and hurt. After school he avoids me as well. We live on the same street and every time when he's outside and sees me playing basketball he'd go back home and pull down the curtains. And also at school, when I'm sitting in the cafeteria near where he and his mates are sitting, they'd go and find another spot. I really like him, and I suppose he just thinks I'm being stupid.
Any advice available?
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you're not being stupid. and he shouldn't avoid you just because he found out you liked him. he should still be talking to you. maybe he just doesn't like you like that? i know that's hard to hear. but maybe you could try to make him jealous? go find someone hotter than him and make him jealous so he wants you. don't wait for him to come to you. i hope this helped and good luck :)
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Hey there :)
Well unfortunately if he is going to act like that then he isn't really worth your time is he?
like the other answers said he is being completely immature. You were brave and took a risk and put yourself out there. It may not have paid off this time but don't lose heart. Pick yourself up and move on. There will be plenty of other guys ones who will appreciate you for you. This guy isn't worth your time or your energy. it's his loss.
Focus your energy on other things. Hobbies and what not. Spend more time with your friends etc. Don't even give this guy the time of day. He ignores you?Ignore him back.
Keep busy and in time you will forget all about him :) and in the meantime may even meet another guy.
Good luck and Much <3
Jess 18/f
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Hey dont worry. Hes being very immature. Im sure you will find another guy. If you cant stop thinking about him then you should catch up with him and tell him that him avoivding you is bothering you and maybe tell him you would like to bo friends again and tell him youre over him.
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Well, if he doesn't like you then there isn't much you can do about it. Unfortunately, he is being immature about the whole situation, unlike you who is being mature. Boys at your age are very silly. Just try and focus on other things for now, and a new guy will show up I'm sure. You have many years to find someone to date! Hope I helped!
-Bri
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