Hey, i'm just a normal teenage girl who's going through some rough patches in life. So if you have any problems with boys, friends, family, relationships or mostly anything ask away. I'm always here to help you and give the best advice i can :)
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I'm a 13 year old girl. I like this guy from school. At first we started off real close friends and then I told him that I liked him. He said he only liked me as a friend and began avoiding me from then on. He began seeing another girl and I'm really confused and hurt. After school he avoids me as well. We live on the same street and every time when he's outside and sees me playing basketball he'd go back home and pull down the curtains. And also at school, when I'm sitting in the cafeteria near where he and his mates are sitting, they'd go and find another spot. I really like him, and I suppose he just thinks I'm being stupid.
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you're not being stupid. and he shouldn't avoid you just because he found out you liked him. he should still be talking to you. maybe he just doesn't like you like that? i know that's hard to hear. but maybe you could try to make him jealous? go find someone hotter than him and make him jealous so he wants you. don't wait for him to come to you. i hope this helped and good luck :)
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Im a virgin, but i feel as if i want to have sex. sometimes i feel like i want to but then again i feel like im making a mistake. but i want to know how it feels to loose my virginity.
seeking an answer
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being a virgin isn't such a bad thing. honestly. i'm still a virgin, and i mean i've always wondered what it would be like to loose my virginity. but let me tell you one thing... don't lose it just because you want to see/know what sex feels like. save it for someone who really loves you and that you really trust. you just don't wanna get "used" by someone just for sex. so if i were you i would wait for that one special guy.
i hope that helped!
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i am a fourteen year old girl. So theres this guy in my class that i really like named corey and he likes me too. But i asked him why he wouldnt go out with me he said that every time a girl has said she liked him it was a bet or a joke.Its not though and when i told him that he said that he didnt know if he could beleive me. Like i said i really like this guy and i ned help to get him to trust me. (link)
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You might wanna try hanging out with him more, and getting his trust. so then he knows he can trust and believe you. Just let him know that you like him for him, and its not a joke honestly. Just keep flirting with him every now and then. Or you might wanna be friends with him first, then hopefully it will turn into a great trustful realtionship. Just be sure to always be there for him, and tell him that he can tell you anything. Good luck :)
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i have an on-going flirtation with this one guy that i go to school with. we openly flirt and will most likley hook up within the next month. i know he thinks im attractive and all but he recently said that i was a 9, as in a 9 out of 10. i dont know whether to be flattered that he gave me such a high number or insulted that he doesnt think im a 10. any opinions on this would be great.
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I'm sure you're a 10 in his eyes! he's probably just hiding it. Don't be insulted! i think 9 is a very high number. So youu have nothing to worry about! I'm sure this guy likes you for who you are. And once you two become a "thing" of course he's gonna think your a 10! good luck and i hope everything works out!
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ive been friends with a guy whose almost exactly perfect for me 4 about 2 months. i was planning 2 ask him out but found out the day b4 this other girl did and he said yes. i found out who it was and it turns out i know her shes a preppy, ginger, that gets way 2 serious bout things,and is a total jerk. like the guy i like im the complete opposite of dat.
i decide 2 flirt with him anyway. there was a party and i started 2 dance him, he waz cool with it and having fun when she runs over and pulls him away. later on a slow song comes on and im not bout 2 give up so i start dancing with him and she freaks so i start 2 walk away when she kisses him right in front of me (she knows i like him). so i try get his attention another way i start grinding on a my girl friend and see hes smiling at me i could tell he liked it. then of course the girl starts grinding on him just 2 make me mad. later dat night she grinds on a few other dudes right in front of him. he is always complimenting me and im think he has more feelings 4 me then just a friend he dose lil flirting signs at me and i give them back
should i wait 4 him 2 ask me out? keep trying 2 get him 2 like me more? move on? or u think i should do something besides those things? (link)
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well i understand what you are saying here. But maybe he is just a flirt? and you don't want a flirt as a boyfriend, trust me. I think you should start to like other people. I'm sure there's someone just as perfect for you as you think this guy is. I mean you can still talk to him and such, just don't focus on just him. And that girl is just trying to make you mad, don't let her get to you... just move on and if she asks if you still like him just simply say no. cause then she'll think you don't like him anymore and won't have any reason to make you mad. But just try to like other people, and eventually you'll find the right one :)
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Would a guy have a girl with kind of bad acne? I have been having acne since elemetary school, and it never goes away. I've tried dermatologist and eveything and the doctors say that the medicine I use gets used to my face and the acne comes back. Sometimes my pimples get really big and I feel like my face is disgusting with scars and zits and then my face clears up and gets worse again. I think I have cystic acne. There are a few guys that have liked me, but I never talked to them because I think they may think my face is disgusting. And there has been guys that have made fun of me and have just been rude to me and call me zit face since elementary, so when a guy tells me he likes me, I just don't believe him. Would a guy date a girl with kind of bad acne? (link)
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Of course a guy would date you, are you crazy? everyone gets acne. even i do. It will eventually clear up, you just gotta keep using creams and such that will help your face. guys should love and like you for who you are. personality is the thing that matters most. You gotta have self confidence, and believe when a guy tells you that he likes you. And those guys that called you zit face, i'm sure they've had bad acne too. so they have nothing to tease you about. Don't even worry about what anyone else says. Be your own person and be who you are. Everyone gets acne, some people just cover it up better than others. hope this helps!
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I'm not entirely sure where to begin. I'm a guy and I'm bisexual. There's a good start. I knew I was, well probably forever. Just the whole facing-reality part was taking a while. I'm now sure of how I feel and who I am. My question is how do I tell my family? My Mother is semi-understanding. She works at a college with many gay people. She accepts them, but still makes remarks and doesn't like to see them touching, kissing, etc. My oldest brother is very against gays. He thinks Lesbians are "okay". He's basically a tool. :) He would probably take the longest to be okay. My middle brother, I believe, would be pretty accepting. He's usually an a-hole, but he seems the most likely to be okay. It doesn't make sense I know, but it does if you were me. As soon as I tell them, I think I would come out to my friends, and then my highschool and then my extended family. I have told a few friends and they were completely accepting and it's a great start. But my family, well idk. Could anyone give advice or maybe tell me how their coming out went? Please and thank you! (link)
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Hmm well if this helps i have a bisexual bestfriend. And he told me just recently that he was bisexual. I didn't care, and of course i accepted him. My uncle is gay also so it doesn't really bother me. I think you should tell your family first, because family always comes first. Your family should accept you for who you are, and not care what orientation you are. As lady gaga would say, "you were born that way baby ;)" Anyways eventually your gonna have to come out sooner or later. And it's gonna be hard to tell people at your school. Especially if your school is like my school, which is so judgemental. And your brothers love you no matter what, so does your mom so they shouldn't have a problem with who you are. Just come out, you'll feel much better. honestly. just take that risk. so what if everyone judges you? eff them. you are your own person and shouldn't care what everyone thinks! well i hope this helps! :) and good luck!
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Well I really like this guy and I just started liking him a couple of weeks ago but he is now going into 9th grade and I'm going into 8th. I feel like its to late because today was the last day of school. It really has made me upset because I really have feelings for him. Btw he hangs out with major preps and popular girls so that makes it even harder please help it would be grateellly appreciated p.s. I used to be just as popular as the girls he hangs with but i went down a lil bit on the popularity list this year so ya im still popular because a lot of ppl like me and more but still please please help thank you!! -Madison! (link)
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Dear Madison,
i've liked a guy since i was in 7th grade and he was in 8th grade. i'm now a freshman in high school and he's a sophomore. When i was in 8th grade and he was in 9th i felt like my life was over, cause i was never going to be able to see him. You can still like him, you'll just have to wait a while. Don't worry, when you get into high school you will get to see him everyday. And when i was in 8th grade i used to sneak up to the high school to just see my crush, maybe you should do that. And i was kinda popular too, and he's on the football team and such. Just try and talk to him more! Populartity has nothing to do with him liking you. I hope this helped!
- jessie. (:
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Soo I was in gym one day. We were doing our dancing unit, and we were line dancing. There was this guy that was always in the front row that always looked back at me. And yes, I know it was me, because he did it in the hallway too. But I had no idea who it was. Then, I found out.. I knew the name right away. He's a junior, (I'm a freshman, by the way) one of the best athletes around.. you know.. one of them jocks. I immediately thought I had no chance with him. So I added him on facebook and talked to him one night. I was surprised.. he was soo nice!! haha and when I asked him if he even knew who I was he said "not really I think you're in my gym class though." I thought that was good.. wouldn't you? I mean he knew who I was.. that was a start. So we've been talking for the past couple of months since then. He's also been staring at me like crazy in school, which has been weird, but hey, I don't hate it. One time when we were talking I told him that I was good at soccer, and he said "I bet I'd beat you" and all of my friends completely freaked when I told them about it, 'cause they thought it was a good thing. I did too, until a few days ago. My friend was talking to him and she told him that one of her friends likes him. He kept begging for hints and stuff.. but she didn't wanna give it away just yet. So she told him that I really liked him and thought he was perfect. But she also told him that he probably wouldn't like me.. we're complete opposites. He still wanted to know. Then she told him that I wasn't in his grade and he replied, "oh so freshman" and he said he knew who it was. This is the rest of the conversation: her: so should I tell her about this or are you going to talk to her about it? him: probably not just don't say anything. her: that bad.. huh? him: no im just not looking for anyone. Then at the end of the conversation he said that he didn't even know who it was. The last thing he said was "dont want to know". So that made me upset. Obviously he knew exactly who it was and didn't want anything to do with me.. right? After all of that happened, I sent him a message that said "sorry.. thats all I can say." and he claimed he didn't know what I was talking about. So obviously he doesnt wanna talk about it, or talk to me. But he still looks at me in school. A while back, like a month ago, everytime I'd try talking to him on chat and he wouldn't say anything, he'd say that he was on his phone and he didn't get the message. I believed him, but it got old. Today I tried talking to him and he didn't say anything. Is he "on his phone"? Or is he just ignoring me like I always thought he would? (link)
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I really really like this question. I'm kind of in the same boat as you are. I think that you should keep talking to him. It seems like hes flirting with you a lot. And he could have lied to your friend. You never know. And maybe you should try smiling at him more, and see where that goes. Just keep your head up, things will work out.
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