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Loosing your virginity
Im a virgin, but i feel as if i want to have sex. sometimes i feel like i want to but then again i feel like im making a mistake. but i want to know how it feels to loose my virginity.
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Thnaks
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
Your virginity is the most beautiful gift you can give to your "special one". You will have sex sooner or later and when you do it should make you feel good not guilty, which can be really difficult to overcome.You might be curious now, but once you've lost your virginity you can never have it back! so save it for the one you truly truly love :)
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being a virgin isn't such a bad thing. honestly. i'm still a virgin, and i mean i've always wondered what it would be like to loose my virginity. but let me tell you one thing... don't lose it just because you want to see/know what sex feels like. save it for someone who really loves you and that you really trust. you just don't wanna get "used" by someone just for sex. so if i were you i would wait for that one special guy.
i hope that helped!
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What does it feel like? Pretty overrated, in my opinion. I know that my first time I was like, "Oh, that's it? THAT is what all the fuss was about?"
It's fairly uncomfortable. It's awkward. For some it hurts. Unless you really care about the person you're with, it won't be a pleasant experience, and that follows through for sex afterwards. Imagine being naked, 2 inches away from some acquaintance or stranger for a half hour. Awkward, right?
Nobody ever feels 100% ready. It's a big decision because you can only make it once, so it's natural to question it. If you're going to lose your virginity for the sake of losing it, don't bother because you'll be disappointed. Wait until that special person is there to take the journey with you.
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Hey there.
If you're questioning yourself or having doubts then you probably aren't ready.
Being curious and being ready are two different things.
You need to make sure you are doing it for the right reasons. And not just because everyone else is or you wanna know what it feels like.
ask yourself the following questions? are you in a relationship?If so do you love him/her ? do you trust him/her? do you feel comfortable and at ease with him/her? are you being pressured?
When the time comes you will know if you're ready. Don't rush into it. So many people do and end up having terrible first experiences of sex.
Waiting isn't the end of the world.
It really depends on your circumstances. If you are in a long term relationship and are ready then I would say go ahead. If not I would hold off. Don't just lose it with some random for the sake of it. It is supposed to be memorable and special it will mean and a whole lot more and feel a whole lot better with someone you love and trust :)
Best of luck and hope I helped
Much<3
Jess 18/f
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