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should i wait 4 him 2 ask me out? keep trying 2 get him 2 like me more? mov


Question Posted Thursday October 6 2011, 10:58 pm

ive been friends with a guy whose almost exactly perfect for me 4 about 2 months. i was planning 2 ask him out but found out the day b4 this other girl did and he said yes. i found out who it was and it turns out i know her shes a preppy, ginger, that gets way 2 serious bout things,and is a total jerk. like the guy i like im the complete opposite of dat.
i decide 2 flirt with him anyway. there was a party and i started 2 dance him, he waz cool with it and having fun when she runs over and pulls him away. later on a slow song comes on and im not bout 2 give up so i start dancing with him and she freaks so i start 2 walk away when she kisses him right in front of me (she knows i like him). so i try get his attention another way i start grinding on a my girl friend and see hes smiling at me i could tell he liked it. then of course the girl starts grinding on him just 2 make me mad. later dat night she grinds on a few other dudes right in front of him. he is always complimenting me and im think he has more feelings 4 me then just a friend he dose lil flirting signs at me and i give them back
should i wait 4 him 2 ask me out? keep trying 2 get him 2 like me more? move on? or u think i should do something besides those things?


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jmeeks19 answered Monday October 10 2011, 10:32 am:
well i understand what you are saying here. But maybe he is just a flirt? and you don't want a flirt as a boyfriend, trust me. I think you should start to like other people. I'm sure there's someone just as perfect for you as you think this guy is. I mean you can still talk to him and such, just don't focus on just him. And that girl is just trying to make you mad, don't let her get to you... just move on and if she asks if you still like him just simply say no. cause then she'll think you don't like him anymore and won't have any reason to make you mad. But just try to like other people, and eventually you'll find the right one :)

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soadorable__x3 answered Friday October 7 2011, 1:24 pm:
I think that you should move on, he has a girlfriend. It's not fair for you to see a guy that you like happy in another relationship, kissing another girl and he's with her for another reason.

When I was in high school there were a few guys that I liked but they always had girlfriends. It was hard for me to get over those guys, but looking back I wish that I hadn't stayed hung up over him.

If you guys are meant to go out one day you will, for now you owe it to yourself to move on. Good luck!

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