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He has been burned by people faking liking him as a joke so how can I get him to trust that I REALLY like him?
i am a fourteen year old girl. So theres this guy in my class that i really like named corey and he likes me too. But i asked him why he wouldnt go out with me he said that every time a girl has said she liked him it was a bet or a joke.Its not though and when i told him that he said that he didnt know if he could beleive me. Like i said i really like this guy and i ned help to get him to trust me.
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You might wanna try hanging out with him more, and getting his trust. so then he knows he can trust and believe you. Just let him know that you like him for him, and its not a joke honestly. Just keep flirting with him every now and then. Or you might wanna be friends with him first, then hopefully it will turn into a great trustful realtionship. Just be sure to always be there for him, and tell him that he can tell you anything. Good luck :)
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You should show him you like him! Get to know him a little bit, and when he sees you're willing to put time into a relationship with him, hopefully he'll know you're being honest.
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you have to understand where his coming from. His brused his alone and scared. Be his friend i know you like him more then just a friend but right now that's all you can be then after you see him trusting you tell him again that you like him. You need to help him heal and then after you can help him love.
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If you really like him...you are going to have to be patient. It may seem silly but when someone has that happen to them several times it becomes really hard for them to trust others in a similar situation. I know this because I am the same way. I think it would be best just to start out as friends and then over time he will learn that he can actually trust you. Later it might move on to the two of you dating...or it may not. It sounds to me though he is more in need of a friend than a girlfriend at the moment though.
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