Member Since: May 14, 2011
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Last Update: May 15, 2011
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so i've had on & off crushes on this boy but never really thought about liking him because he dated one of my close friends a few years ago. but now i found out that he likes me! i'm not sure of how i feel because everyone knows that another one of my friends has basically been in-love with him for years and has put up with everything that he's done. he's basically the mr. right for me because he understands my problems and has the qualities of a guy that i like and there's really no one else like him. i'm sure that i could really like him but i don't know if i should because my friend has liked him for so long and i don't want to seem like i'm stealing him away. in the past, they have liked each other but the timing is always wrong or something because they've never gotten together so i feel like i'd just get in the way of her happiness. Should I allow myself to really like him back and tell him?! I'm afraid he won't wait forever and i'll lose my chance...but I don't want to lose my other friend. Please help! we have a vibe together but i think they would look good together as well. And i'm the type of person who would always let the friend get the guy but in the past, this just made me extremely sad because I had to distance myself from the guy so my friend could have him and in the end, no one was happy because they didn't even get together. (link)
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explain whats going on to her and tlk to her about it and basically tell her what you tld us that you dont want it to seem like u are stealing him she will understand if she is really your friend
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I've realized that I sometimes am attracted to females. Like, I watch lesbian porn sometimes and I have a lot of gay friends. I know neither of those things "make you gay", but lately I've started having feelings for a friend of mine who is female. I'm not quite sure if I just want to hook up with her or if I truly have emotional feelings. What do I do? Is there even anything I should do? (Oh by the way, this friend is a pansexual.) (link)
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im going to be alittle blunt nothing personal but i believe that your sexuality is your bussiness and all but you shud put more thought into try dating more dudes and spend less time wit girls or wit ur frand im not saying ignore her jus give some space and its totally fine to be diffrent but if i were you i would not tell my friend unless she is a really good friend who would understand
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Hi I'm 15 f a little bit above average in weight and never had a boyfriend. I've been crying like when something random happens I go into my room and cry but its completely off subject why I do cry. I use to like this guy Tom and we had a small thing going on in the summer(never had my first kiss yet) anyways I've liked him and allways thought about him until march my one friend that knows him well she showed me a text that really helped me get over him and thenext day I met a guy Dom and he's a yeAr younger and will be joining my school next year but we talked a little bit and I thought he was cute but I barely knew him anyways but since I have no like good friendship with guys I can't get Tom off my mind and I've tried talking to other guys and like I said I'm not the most attractive girl so it's hard and my friends I love them but don't spend like every night with them so I'm usually home alone with nothing to do but wait for texts and creep on fb haha and I never get texts from guys only like a couple of completely just friends that I could never like. But yeah Tom just pops into my mind every now and then and ive tried messaging him on fb he replies once but when I really start the convo going he never replies and after summer when school started( he's a yeAr older) he just didn't talk to me like we use to and that's what crushed me bc I get bored and I need attention but if I dint get it I cry and feel depressed:( (link)
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oh myyy!!! ive been there no wait i AM there hun theres this dude ben ive liked him since ive known him (thats a long time) and it stinks because he doesnt like me as far as ik all i can tell you is if he is your friend and isnt talkin to you u need to be the one who txt him first and let him know he isnt being a good friend if he isnt gunna tlk to u and if yall are close he will understand believe me ive tried! and suceeded he is soo much nicer and tlks to me more its a relief:)
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so i liked this guy for a while. not a big crush, but he was freakin' amazing.. then my bestfriend started liking him, and eventually they went out. So they jut broke up.. and i'm over him now, and started liking someone else who i've had feelings for, but not exactly liked since i was in first grade. and guess what.. she likes him now! and asked him who he liked.. and he said her and not me. So what do i do? :( (link)
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i have friends just like that she starts noticing him when you do trust me ive been there all i can tell you to do is be blunt with her talk about it or she wont know and wont understand dont hold a grudge either she may be mad at you for alittle while but she will get over if she is a true friend:)
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