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Guy said i was a 9. Should I be insulted that he didn't say I was a 10?
18 f
i have an on-going flirtation with this one guy that i go to school with. we openly flirt and will most likley hook up within the next month. i know he thinks im attractive and all but he recently said that i was a 9, as in a 9 out of 10. i dont know whether to be flattered that he gave me such a high number or insulted that he doesnt think im a 10. any opinions on this would be great.
thanks!
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Dont take this personally.
9 is the best answer you can get. 10 means hes just trying to get into your pants, and you're not a 10. no girls are 10s if youre talkin about just looks. Just remember there are 8 other numbers he could have rated you with and be happy it wasnt one of them
you're thinking into this way too much, to be asking for advice. Just be happy that he likes you.
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Guys never say a girl is a 10 (i insulted my GF a month ago by saying she was a 9 lol)
The reason that guys dont say that is because they want that you do something to become 10 (sayin stuff like:"I know how to become a 10 for you... but you need to help me with that (^.^-way for askin sex)")
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I'm sure you're a 10 in his eyes! he's probably just hiding it. Don't be insulted! i think 9 is a very high number. So youu have nothing to worry about! I'm sure this guy likes you for who you are. And once you two become a "thing" of course he's gonna think your a 10! good luck and i hope everything works out!
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He said you're a nine and not a ten and you remember him because he said you weren't perfect. Mission accomplished. Plus doesn't it sound like a such a phony pick up line when a guy says you're a ten? Or like he is uber desperate?
You ought to look, though, at why you're so disturbed. It's a reflection of just how much women trade on their looks to get guys. You're freaked out because you don't want to lose to other women since all women are competitive with each other.
So just relax, strip away the bullshit verbiage and listen for real content. Usually, guys who use number systems for women don't have any.
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Well I think you should be flattered because sorry he is probably lying about you being a 9 even if you are very attractive because a 10 to me is perfect and no ones perfect that's what makes us human so don't look at it as a bad thing but its not even close
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Some times people are very strict as to what they consider to be a 10. A 9 is still a good rating, I have been rated as a 9 by some guys that I was dating. A 9 means that he is very attracted to you, I don't think that you should be offended at all.
Good luck with this guy, and don't let him use you :).
I must say that I do agree with Zane though, I've been told that I'm very attractive by members of the opposite sex however I wouldn't date someone based on their looks. If someone is dating you based on your looks than they're very shallow, and not someone that you want to be involved with.
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Why do you care so much what a guy rates you? Why do you care so much to let something so stupid and small insult you?.....I'm not being an ass I'm just pointing out that this would be the least of your problems if you were to have a relationship.
A guy shouldn't date based on a rating, Looks aren't what should matter it's the personality that counts.
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You just shouldn't care at all what anyone what rates you. There are more important things to ask advice on in life.
And if he sees you care, he has got you right where he wants you.
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Hello,
First of all, true beauty is found within. Yes the outside is what most people see but having to see people appealing to you but what a total weirdo what would you do ?
I think 9/10 is pretty high.
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10 would prety much be perfection whch is unattainable by human standards cause we human!and 9 rely high..must be unnerving to be rated
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