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fighting for love


Question Posted Saturday March 31 2012, 3:08 pm

when do you stop fighting for love? not fighting like yelling, but trying to make things work out. we're still very much in love, but were in a difficult situation. this has been going on for months. things have been really bad, but i'm not sure i want to give up on us. when do you give up on love? is it when you forget what youre fighting for? thanks

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mercury answered Saturday March 31 2012, 4:13 pm:
Well,I would do it all the time,because I've always loved my partner very much,well...a few months ago I felt like stop doing it,I felt like stop missing him or 'controlling' him so much,you know,I kinda understood that if he loves that much and I love him that much as well,then there's no reason to be fighting for our relationship all the time,except of course, when something serious happens,or when somebody tries to keep us apart,like our parents:(Look it'd be helpful if you tell us what your difficult situation was,what you're still or were fighting for, so as to see if I/we could be a bit more straightforward in my/our answer:)meantime,if you still love him/her that much,then don't stop fighting for them;)

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ifyouneedme1 answered Saturday March 31 2012, 3:24 pm:
You stop fighting for love when you realize that you can be okay without seeing the person everyday. When you can stop thinking about the other person. When everything you see doesnt remind you of him/her. When you would be happier without the oher person. You should try the best you can to work things out and if your lover doesnt try to fight back for you, then you can give up and move on.

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