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Is there hope?


Question Posted Saturday March 31 2012, 4:10 pm

I'm a female in 7th grade & I'm completely mature for this young age. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months, he's a freshman ( 9th grade ). We have had so many ups & downs but we've made it through. About 3 days ago he broke up with me. I was devistaded, torn, oh so lovesick. I'm nothing without him. He's also my neighbor which makes things worse. He tells my friend that he left me because he heard things about me, didn't have the same feelings anymore. He told me that he fucked up & broke my promises. A couple weeks ago I promised I would never cut or do anything dumb to myself, I put it down on his LIFE. He did the same with me except he couldn't do drugs, smoking, and drinking. I suppose he got " crossfaded " & broke up with me. All I really want is US back. I'm wondering if there's hope? He said he wants to get back together but one of his feelings doesn't. He's been my first everything to be honest. We've had so many memoires it's hard to forget him. I just want him back.

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lightoftruth answered Sunday April 1 2012, 3:57 am:
I know how you feel. There is a chance you guys could get back together but I think you should move on. Although it will probably take awhile and you'll be thinking about him a lot. If he's confused about what he wants then it's not worth it.
You guys have only been together for 3 months, it's not very long. But I get it, cause for middle school relationships it's longer than most.
You are so young and you have sooo much time and it doesn't need to be spent on this boy.
You guys had good times and good memories, you'll never forget them but you could always make new memories with someone else :).

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