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What are 3 things you wanted as a kid but never got? (link)
Hello,

- Cubby house
- All the toy story toys
- To go to wonderland ( they shut down:( )


i am 16 and m dating a 17 year old boy we have been dating for three years and we in a distance relationship so he telling me we should have sex so that he can remember me when he's away (link)
Hello.

You've been together for 3 years? Are you telling me that if you don't have sex that he'll forget you? that's stupid. If he really liked you he would always remember you whether you've had sex or not. If you're not ready, don't do it. Don't feel pressured to do it and dont think he'll break up with me if I don't, if he breaks up with then he's not worth it. If you're ready and you feel comfortable then go ahead, if you're not explain to him. 3 years is a long time I don't think he'll break up a 3 year relationship if you're not ready.


So I tried getting in this whole religion and learning about God and reading... but I really have NO motivation whatsoever to do that.. so I keep getting worse... like I had a dream about the devil last night and I have nightmares almost everynight... and I don't know what to do.. I mean I am so aggressive and I guess its due to the bullying and harrassment and assaults(rape) maybe. I dont know,but my parents tell me how much I am the devil and how im going to burn in hell.. like how is that suppose to make me a better person? is it too much to ask to move out and have some damn space for a while? to them its a bad thing and I will end up on the streets.
Comments? (link)
Look, you can't be forced to do something that you don't want to because it'll push you further away and you won't be motivated at all. Your parents just want you to believe in god that's why they're being so harsh and they think if they push you further that you'll learn.

When your ready to read and to learn about god then do it, there's no point is trying to learn if you don't want to because you'll just forget it all the next morning. Explain to your parents that you are trying but the past does play a huge role in your life and you need time to sort of move on from that to allow yourself to heal to be able to let another thing, get me?

If you explain to your parents about your past, they'll have to understand. Your parents just care about you, they have a funny way of showing it, but look at this way if they didn't care, don't you think they would've quickly said yeah move out?

Good luck


So , if someone says they care about you.. so this guy said he cares about me... and stuff.. and like it might sound stupid , but its odd.. we went to get pizza... and im like oh im going to get pizza.. and after I bought it 4 bucks!!! I ate it and it wasn't too good.. and he says.. '' oh yeah I know just looking at it was gross... sorry.. I should have spoke up and told you... it looked really gross''
like if he cares why doesnt he tell me not to buy it? its like he says it but doesnt mean it.
another thing... I always have to be the one doing oral... I never have gotten oral done to me.. I asked him I want the same back and he still doesn't do it.. what to do? (link)
He doesn't really sound like he cares, it sounds more he's using you....

If a guy really liked a girl and cared, don't you think he'd want to give her the same pleasure he recieved? Let him go, he's a waste of time, he's a waste of your time! You can do better.

He sounds like a prick, when you let him go, he'll most likely question you and be stupid and wonder why, you can either explain or you can simply say you're an idiot no more no less.


is my xgirlfriend wanting to work things out with me (link)
LOL, be more specific.


I really want to give this guy a blowjob but something is just telling me not to. What should I do? (link)
If something is holding you back and you keep having second thoughts then don't do it.

When you're ready to do you'll know and you won't be having second thoughts. Sexual activites aren't always planned sometimes they just happen depending on the moment and you'll know then and there whether you're up for it or not.


well im a guy and i really want to give a guy a great blowjob. the thing is I want it to be great for him. So can anybody give me any advice on how to give a great blowjob? (link)
I wouldn't be too sure to be honest with you, though I found a few sites that may help you.

http://www.deepmemories.com/how-to-give-a-blowjob-that-will-blow-his-mind.html

http://www.sexgooroo.com/foreplay/how-to-give-a-good-blowjob/

http://www.jacksblowjoblessons.com/

http://www.howtogivehead.biz/

GOODLUCK !


f/14
I shave my legs and arms and I have hair on my knees and ellbows but I also have hair on my stomach! Is this normal? And is there any way to get rid of it without it growing back? (link)
Yes, It's normal everyone has hair some people have light, dark, thick and thin hair. Don't shave because hair usually comes out much thicker, as suggested before lasering, though i'm not sure whether you have to be 18 and over. Lasering depending on the body area does cost a fair bit, however look around and you're bound to find something at a suitable price, lasering usuing takes up to 6 session and the results are usually really good some time you're hairless forever and some the hair does grow back,however it grows back in 10 years or so.


I just found myself crying, I miss him so much . But I do not understand why I do . I realize that he might have moved on and doesnt think about me anymore but why cant I get over him (link)
Losing someone is hard and it does take time to heal.

Take it day by and don't expect anything! Go out have fun, don't sit there and think about everything or the past or wait for a phone call.

You will move on, however you've also got to try and do that by letting it go, by going out and enjoying yourself.

Time heals everything.


I'm 16/f he's 17/m
I'm talking to this guy Javier he just got back from his trip from Guatemala. He's also working as a handy man in this community outing thing tommorow. And we wante to see each other again there. I kinda wanna seduce him to a point to get him to leave. Note this is a public event , I want it to be sublte. Thankss. (: (link)
I found a few websites you can probably try to use. Not sure if they're any help.

http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/2010/02/10-ways-to-seduce-your-man-in-seconds#slide=4

http://bossip.com/130931/for-the-ladies-10-ways-to-seduce-a-man/

- Eye contact
- Send him flirty/dirty text messages
- Touch him flirtatiously not to an extent though.


okay this guy lets call him ricky, he used to like in the begianing of the year and we started texting and flirting but i wasn't sure if i liked him so i kind of blew him off after a while. then he when out with this girl for about two weeks and she broke up with him. shortly after that we started talking again and we flirted alot and i was starting to think that i liked him but i wasnt sure well ricky eventually came out and told me he like me and i told him i like him too and then later that night i realised i didnt so i told him that and we ended up fighting becuase i had lied to him but i explained and we settled it that we would be friends. after that we kept talking and about a month later he said he was over me so we kept talking alot even now we talk everyday like its a rotine for us. and then about a month ago he got a girlfriend but she lives in new york. but even with a girlfriend he still flirts with me alot and also he tells me he talks to me more then his girlfriend he also tells me that he loves me all the time and tells me alot of sweet things and he says he cares about me alot, more then a normal friend and less the a girlfriend but his always flirting like last night i said i was tired and that i was going to bed and his like can i go to bed with you and i told him no theres only room for me and his like you can share you can lay on top of me and im like no i dont share and then his like havent you heard of cuddleing and im like thats what my pillows for and then his like how about spooning and im like i dont need to spoon with any one, i dont know am i overreacting and also the other day he said i was his best friend and that he was gonna give me a friendship ring, bracellet, or neckolace.
okay so what i want to know is...
1)is it right that we're so close when he has a gf? we talk every single day and night.
2)is he flirting or am i just looking in to it to much?
3)is it werid that his getting me jewlery when he has a girlfriend even if its only a friendship jewlery?
btw im 15f and his 15m
please anwser my quesion thank you . (link)
He still likes you.

He really likes you and always has and he might like you for a while. Probably the only reasons he dates other girls is to get over you, he's using them as rebounds.

Everything he's doing are signs that he lkes you and yes he is flirting with you. I think you know yourself that it's wrong what he's doing beacuse he has a girlfried, stay in touch but tell him the flirting and all the purchasing of things has got to stop because you don't want to disrespect his girlfriend and you don't want to interfer in their relationship.


I finally had alone time with the guy that is so sweet to me and just amazing to me. We had a ton of fun, and for some reason I always look at the stupid little flaws and they make me think and then I feel so freaking stupid. I mean I don't like chest hair, and that bothered me and I don't get why I do that because he is cute and has the perfect smile and perfect career, yet that little feature bugs me and I need help and a new mind set, someone help me. ): (link)
Think about it are you really interested then?
They say nobodys perfect however if you really like or love someone the flaws never matter, you don't even realise their flaws or they just don't bother you at all.

When you think about it everyone has a flaw, i'm pretty sure you do as well. Don't let a good guy go because you found one thing wrong with him, chest hair can always be removed, imagine someone letting you go because they found a flaw with you? You seem to really like him and he seems to really treat you good, don't let that go, you'll get over it sooner or later.


My darling boyfriend is turning 18 soon. What is a thoughtful gift for him. We've been together 7 months if that helps. I'm really bad at thinking of gifts to give! Please help !! (link)
Hello,

Well try to buy him something you know he has an interest in.

Here are a few ideas

- Buy him perfume
- Take him out and then take him to dinner ( you pay)
- If he plays ps3, maybe try to find a game he really wants.
- An I.D bracelet and get his name engraved on it and some people like to engrave their date at the back.




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