He says we should have sex so he can remember me when he is away?
Question Posted Tuesday August 2 2011, 2:50 pm
i am 16 and m dating a 17 year old boy we have been dating for three years and we in a distance relationship so he telling me we should have sex so that he can remember me when he's away
Lonesome12 answered Thursday August 4 2011, 6:27 pm: WOW! what an BUTTWHOLE! how are you still with him for 3 years? REALLY REMEBER BY HAVING SEX WITH HIM!? sorry for the caps.. wow that is horrible that is out of place and that is like that other guy said a horrible excuse... he is NOT worth your time dont have anything to do with him and dump him.. YOUR ANSWER SHOULD BE 100% NO , if you dont have sex with him.. he will forget about you.. so hes just enjoying the pleasure for himself.. seems to me hes not worth it.. so if you DO have sex with him.. he will remeber you.. HINT HINT.. remeber NOT you.. BUT remeber the SEX you gave him.. thats trash [ Lonesome12's advice column | Ask Lonesome12 A Question ]
WordsKill answered Tuesday August 2 2011, 8:35 pm: Hello.
You've been together for 3 years? Are you telling me that if you don't have sex that he'll forget you? that's stupid. If he really liked you he would always remember you whether you've had sex or not. If you're not ready, don't do it. Don't feel pressured to do it and dont think he'll break up with me if I don't, if he breaks up with then he's not worth it. If you're ready and you feel comfortable then go ahead, if you're not explain to him. 3 years is a long time I don't think he'll break up a 3 year relationship if you're not ready. [ WordsKill's advice column | Ask WordsKill A Question ]
JustJessOx answered Tuesday August 2 2011, 6:42 pm: Hey there,
Okay well the question is do you feel ready?
do you love this guy? or do you feel pressured?like if you don't do it he won't love you or will end it with you?
Ask yourself these questions.
Don't have sex until you know 100% you are ready. It's a very emotional and serious act despite what many think. If you go into it not ready it has consequences..I did it with my boyfriend I thought I was ready..he never pressured me but I just broke down it was such a huge deal for me as I had built it up to be amazing in my head and it was just an utter let down.
Be prepared. Don't do anything unless YOU want to.
If you feel ready and right and that he's the one go for it but use protection and be safe. Don't do it to please him.
I hope this helps good luck :)
Much <3
Jess 17/f [ JustJessOx's advice column | Ask JustJessOx A Question ]
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