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I want my ex boyfriend back...
My boyfriend and I broke and he's dating a new girl. I want him back more than anything, I'm in love with him. I made the mistake of crying and begging for him back, and insulting the new girl he is with. All that got me, was him refusing to answer my texts and phonecalls. I want to know how I can make him want me again, and get him to want to talk to me. I guess, i just need some steps on how to win him back. I'll do anything, I don't care how long it takes.
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If you're prepared to wait and stick around with him it's pretty likely you will get him back sooner or later. Here are some tips for getting him back: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) they are aimed at men, but the same applies to women in most cases. People are pretty similar when it comes to these things.
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thats horrible.. doesnt he love you? or is he with a new one for payback or has he moved on? dont insult his new girlfriend.. that shows lack of independecy and just disgusting.. show that your better then that.. if he refuses your texts and all go to his house and talk it out with him.. well here are some pointers:
- forget about himm.. if he is with a new person already he sure didnt have many feelings for you
1. so go and act like nothing happened
2. take pictures and pretty ones and express and be with others and show how happy and what a good self confidence you really have
3. go out and if you see him smile and be flirty and say hi
4. show him that he doesn deserve you show him whos good one
5. dont show that you are desperate for him i know its bad but go and just act calmy.. show that you are strong and an indepenent women
6. get a make over
7. BE PATIENT! be sure this is what you want..
-een though there will be many guys later on
8. dont act like your life depends on him act like nothing ever existed
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thats horrible.. doesnt he love you? or is he with a new one for payback or has he moved on? dont insult his new girlfriend.. that shows lack of independecy and just disgusting.. show that your better then that.. if he refuses your texts and all go to his house and talk it out with him.. well here are some pointers:
- forget about himm.. if he is with a new person already he sure didnt have many feelings for you
1. so go and act like nothing happened
2. take pictures and pretty ones and express and be with others and show how happy and what a good self confidence you really have
3. go out and if you see him smile and be flirty and say hi
4. show him that he doesn deserve you show him whos good one
5. dont show that you are desperate for him i know its bad but go and just act calmy.. show that you are strong and an indepenent women
6. get a make over
7. BE PATIENT! be sure this is what you want..
-een though there will be many guys later on
8. dont act like your life depends on him act like nothing ever existed
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This works most the time. or every time that ive given this advice to my friends, its always worked.
STEPS !
1) Make him think that your fine without him!
2) Find you someone else . [ it will make him jealous , if he still loves you ]
3) Give him some space, stop texting him or calling him or whatever it is your doing, just give him some time and then he'll start realizing that your not trying and he'll wonder why.
4) if he doesnt want you back, then be strong and let go.
its hard, and always will be because a part of you will always think of him but in the long run itll be better. trust me on this.
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Hey there :)
This isn't going to be what you want to hear right now but it's truly time to let go. As painful as that may be.
I know it hurts bad but hounding him and constantly texting him and begging to get back is only going to drive him further and further away from you. Especially by insulting his new girlfriend.
The fact is he has moved on. Whatever happened between you two is done. In the past. He is looking for to the future and I strongly advise that you should do the same.
It's so hard to move on when you still love someone. It's one of the hardest things to do in life but everyone has to go through it at some stage.
You need to respect his new decision. If you still love him you will give him that much.
Why waste your energy and efforts on trying to win him back when it's only going to cause you more pain and cost you more time.
Time is the key in this. It's a healer. You have to start getting over him.
Cry. Cry your heart out let all your emotions out look at old pictures allow yourself to miss him.. eat ice cream watch sad movies. Once that's done it's time to get tough.
Cut him out of your life. Every time you feel yourself start to think about him don't. Distract yourself. Call a friend. Go to the mall shop..bake listen to some upbeat music do anything that doesn't remind you of him.
Delete his facebook and his number.
I promise you after a while you will find your feelings start to fade I know you probably think right now that will never happen but it will.
Ive gone through my fair share of break ups.
I have been in that desperate stage where I was prepared to run to china and back just to get him back,but it doesn't work. You have to move on. I wish the answer was more simple but it isn't.
Its going to be hard but you will come through it a stronger person. And it will be worth it when you can finally say to yourself you know what I feel nothing from him.
You might even come to the stage where you are ready to wipe the slate clean. Even be the bigger person perhaps even be friends.
But right now you are acting very unfair and I know deep down you probably know that.
How would you feel if an ex wouldn't stop bombarding you with phonecalls and texts insulting your new boyfriend..you would be pissed.
I know I don't know the background here but how it ended and who did what is irrelevant.
Please take time to consider what I said and if you need any help or have anymore questions feel free to inbox me.
Good luck and remember a broken heart will heal.
Much <3
Jess 17/f
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