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Hi there,
I would like to know if you are old enough to be on this site, and did you even read this question:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=597282
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Seriously? Your answer is as if you didn't even understand what she said. He didn't dump her while she was drunk... SHE CHEATED ON HIM WHILE HE WAS PASSED OUT!
Did she take care of her passed out boyfriend? Nope... cheated on him while he was unconscious.
You are putting the blame on HIM for something SHE did.
If you are going to answer questions here, you are going to have to take the time to read and understand what people are asking.
You also have two accounts. Inbox DangerNerd and tell him which one you want to keep and why you created two accounts, or you will be banned for making multiple accounts.
Here is the link:
http://www.advicenators.com/question.php?u=16820 (link)
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Nice.
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17/f.
There's a guy I like and he asked me out today... but he's got some issues with his past and sees a counselor. That's not too bad I guess, tons of people are like that. What is a biggie is that that in addition to his temper and the fact he went suicidal last time a girl broke up with him.
I do care about this guy a lot as my friend, and feel sparks of attraction, but it seems like a dangerous situation to be in, to be his girlfriend. If we were to break up, I do NOT wanna deal with the possibility of a crazy stalker ex.
More than anything it's just my gut telling me that he's more unstable than he seems, not actual evidence. I don't know what to do. I'm worried if I say no things will be bad. Yet he's also told me it'll be fine if I say no because we'll still be friends...
What should I do? (link)
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He probabaly went suicidal because it went on for so long and he didnt want anything to go down he probabaly wanted to stay with her.. be careful it seems you dont want it ... I mean your already seeing if and thinking of breaking up.. really? tell him no , doesnt seem your interested and you need to tell him ASAP! trust me.. no matter whaat do it now before he you let it go too late
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19/f
i asked a question about this before but i need to update the info. basically, my boyfriend (of 10 months) broke up with me like 2 weeks ago because i said stupid stuff to him when i was drunk. like horrible stuff like told him i wanted to be single and hook up with other guys but i truly did not mean any of it. the only time we really fought was when we were drunk. i talked to him yesterday and he told me he just wants to be friends. he told me that he's never gonna feel the same about me again and he's 100% sure that he doesn't wanna be with me, but i don't know if i believe that. i think he's just hurt. he told me if we got back together he would be worried that i would cheat on him and still act the same way when i was drunk. i don't know how to prove to him that i've changed in these 2 weeks. he already knows that i haven't been drinking, but he thinks that's stupid. i think he's worried that i'm gonna be horrible and mean and drunk but i know i won't be. i just don't know how to prove it to him. i guess it took losing him to realize that i was just scared to show him how i really felt all along. i wanna start over with him and try to earn his trust back i'm just scared he's really done with me. but he keeps making comments about how he doesn't wanna see me with other guys or how it hurts him to imagine me with other guys. but when i say nice things to him he pushes me away. how can i convince him that things will be better? (link)
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he will push you away because like you hurt him ovbviously but dont worry you know if he DOES want to be with you he will its not your choice to decide its really HIS... he will show you if he wants this relationship or not.. dont worry show him and take him out somewhere do something he really likes wheny ou do , dont hang out with guys... I still think its stupid though about the drinking.. like its not your fault.. he should be there for you .. I think you dont need to change anything why do you want to change for a stupid guy? dont worry it will work out dont try to change itmight be worse or better who knows but once you change it will fade away adn you will be yourself again because you cant change who you are.. everything will work out just give it time! :)
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I have been having bad acne for 9 yrs, Im 17 yrs old and its really bad. The bumps on my face get really big and they are very painful. I have tried everything you can think of in the stores for acne. Some of the medications only work for a while and then my acne just comes back and gets worse. I get really big bumps around my nose and my chin. I have some right now and they are big and painful. These bumps burn when I try to put acne medication on them. The bleed and sometimes they are really red and embarrassing. I wash my face and use everything. Ive tried proactive, witch hazel nitrogen and everything you name it and it doesn't work. Ive been to the dermatologist and she gave me medicine but it worked for a while and the acne just got worse, she told me that my face got used to the medicine and that's why the medicine stopped working. She gave me some new medicine and it doesn't work its pill and lotion. I can only go to the dermatologist 2 times a year and I cant pay for high priced medicine. I have been getting teased since elementary school and now school is about to start back and Im a senior and I don't want to be made fun of this year. People call me zit face and pimple face, Ive cried sometimes because of that, some people treat me like I have a disease.
My acne kind of looks like this: http://www.myskincure.net/acne111.jpg
It gets like this sometimes: http://dermimages.med.jhmi.edu/images/cystic_acne_conglobata_1_050322.jpg
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I had a problem like that.. I tried proactiv and it went away when I used it and it came back.. dont worry , do you see a dermatologist? you should if you aren't.. you know what worked for me.. ACCUTANE!! it worked but I used it for a year and after the affects happened its spotless and there is side effects the only thing I got was sensitive skin , you should really really look into it , it will help you , I know you might feel terrible but it will make you better trust me :) look into it
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hi:) so i have just recently tried out for my high school competition cheerleading team and i made it.! i am also one of the flyers. i have my left split but when i stand up i can't kick up and grab my heel stretch. any special things or stretches that i need to do?? i have to kick up and grab it, i'm not allowed to grab my foot and then pull it up.
thank you:) (link)
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this might not help TOO much.. but try and stretch it father everyday after two three weeks you should be fine and be able to stretch it where you want it and definatly exercise and be omistic!
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Hey(: So I was wondering is there anywhere you can get fake belly button rings? I'm 13 and I know my parents woun't let me, and I don't want to really get it done cuz I know it will hurt so I was wondering do you know where to get a fake one? I know fake ear rings woun't look good for sure because they don't look anything like them! Please Help!! Thanks(: (link)
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yes there is :) go to your dollar store they will have some possibly at zellers too and online there must be tons!!! or try to go to a piercing place or if your too embarassed call them and ask them if they acrry it!!!
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My family constantly tells me Im fat. It's really starting to affect me. I think I look ok I'm not perfect but I'm not a whale. My family on the other hand makes me feel like a whale....it's not like my mom and dad are skinny. Anyway is there a way to lose weight fast? I'm 5'5 and 145 pounds. I'm starting to feel like crap:/ thank you:) oh and don't tell me I'm perfect how I am because if I were I wouldn't get called fat by those closest to me and those love me. (link)
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trust me I know the way.. but you have to like music you must like music right and have a good time? you can buy this in a game or you can go to your local gym... ZUMBA! have you heard of it? you can look up testimonies it works I told many people this it works.. if you put effort into the dancingh you can loose up to 1,000 calories its a dance and cardio class and its so much fun :) it boosts you up and you dont worry about anything as long as you like it :) you can loose so much weight trust me.. I went down 10 poiunds.. it works!!
also drink LOTS OF WATER!!!
DONT DO DIETS.. HALF OR MORE TIME THEY SUCK AND DONT WORK THEY SCREW YOUR STOMACH!!!... :)
good luckl!!!
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Is it better to go to a high school where no one knows you and start fresh , or to go to school where everyone knows you but you have a lot of bad history with them ?
I am a freshmen now but I really don't want to go to the school I am going to because I just have a lot of drama left behind me in . A lot of the friedns I had, I don't have anymore why because I had made bad choices . . . and mostly because I would hang out with the wrong people . I want to go to a diffrent school where no one knows me to start new where I can meet new people and kinda start over . . . but how do I convince my mom . ? (link)
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well if you go somewhere else... somewhere new do you think you will end up having more people that are the wrong friends? what if people connect with people from your school and tell them these horrible things.. I never changerd schools I wanted to , I ended up being a loner most of the time , but you know what I dont worry about , those raren't trust friends if they aren't by your side.. they obviosuly are worthless.. trust me it will be fine and thing swill work out , dont worry either way what happens happens.. either awy people will know and you know either way you will meet new people dont worry.. well if you want to go to a different new school tell your mom you want a new start and you dont have any good things to positive about the school your at tell her you want new friends you want a new experience beyond the school your at , tell her you will do good grades and mean it.. do what you can and make her proud
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ok i need to know if it is possible that in the near future we will be able to time travel. like im 13 so obviously i havent lived inthe 60s. however, i really want to go back in time and meet the beatles desparately. is it quite possible that time travel could be invented in my lifetime? also in addition, is anyone even trying to invent time travel right now?! and please list possible time travel theories as well. though i should prob be thinking about guys in my own generation, these are the thoughts that run through this 13 year olds mind. dang i was totally born in the wrong era! anyway, help a girl out and answer these 3 questions. kisses! (link)
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1. maybe.. they got a transparent airplane on the way.. anything is possible
2. to be honest I have no idea if they are , heres some sites
http://www.timetravelinstitute.com/theory/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Time_travel
3. a lot can be accomplished and nothing can be said for real.. only time can tell..
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where can i get vintage clothing that is good for cheap and/or decent prices? thanks! kisses! (link)
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Local vintage store , value village , downtown , like the person said salvation army , and also , online and donations.
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if someone has hooked up a camera in your bedroom do they have to watch it from that household (i live in a house) or could that person watch it from someone elses house? I need to know that way I know where to look for the hookup! (link)
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Oh yes.. with this techonology yes.. ALWAYS MAKE SURE YOUR WINDOWS AREN'T OPENED AND YOUR DOORS ARE CLOSED.. lock your door and windows dont let anyone in.. and watch out in comptuers and tvs and in corners of room under bed in drawers in close.. some cuts in the wall , hidden wall.. uhmm in a book you never know.. you should watch out...
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my father hates me since i was 13 years old in now am 17. and am afriad of him ever since he had went to jail cause of me for abuse. my mom and him hasnt spoken sence and when i dream of him its like nightmare and i more afriad of him. I ALSO HIDE FROM HIM WHEN HIS IN THE HOUSE IN HE DONT EVEN ASK IF AM AROUND OR NOT! (link)
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1. Talk to your mom
2. Why are you in the house alone with the dad that abuses you? I think you should be farther out
3. Go to a social worker you should be able to talk it out with someone you need help
4. I think you should move away as soon as possible.. go to your mom or other family memeber dont be anywhere near your dad.
5. Get a license restriction... why dont you have one now? you should look into it so you cant be near him in so many metres because he can get charged..
6. Please go and dont be scared.. nightmares are nightmares , dont let it get to your head..
7. GET OUT OF THERE!
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I just found myself crying, I miss him so much . But I do not understand why I do . I realize that he might have moved on and doesnt think about me anymore but why cant I get over him (link)
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because you have been INFACTUATED!!! you need to focus on something else.. put your phone away delete his numbers and msn email everything.. just dont let everything , dont let him bring you down.. show him you dont care about him... you can do so much better :) trust me you will move on just occupy yourself with things to do so your not thinking too much and before bed read a book it really helps you :) trust me it will be a lot better , everything will be okay dont worry :)
you need to go out with friends and try finding and looking for tohers :)
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It seems as if no matter how hard I try, I get caught in the same twist every single time I am interested in a girl.
I am currently 17 years old, and my first high school crush was this girl in ninth grade I knew. We shared a choir class, and she always joked around and flirted with me. At first, I acted myself and charmed her by doing so, yet as I started to fall for her more and more, I changed my mannerisms in a fear that if I keep showing her my true self, she will become uninterested in me. I tried to hide my feelings by acting macho and sort of mean, and that made her distance herself, and when I eventually confessed my feelings, she turned me down, and that night was still the worst night of my life.
Ever since then, I have felt the need to change my personality once I know a girl likes me. The moment I find out that she is interested, I choke up and any conversation becomes awkward as I focus in too much on making her laugh, making her interested, just desperately keeping control and making sure I don't lose her, and I always do
The next year, I had a relationship with a girl from Youth Camp. She was feminist, super liberal, and a very outspoken and loud girl. My main insecurities are trivial, like stomach hair, public perception, and other dumb stuff, but its those little things that make me so unconfident in my abilities. But I digress. I worked up the nerve to explain to her how self conscious I was, and she just said whatever, thats ok. I fell in love with her immediately, satisfied with the person who saw my true self and was unabashed. I then became clingy, and she also ended the relationship
Most recently, I started talking to this other girl. She was a year younger than me, and was the prettiest girl in my school. Guys chased after her, and I thought that hey, I might as well see who she is as a person. At first, she was distant, probably getting messages from many other fellas, but soon, she started initiating our conversations and she started to like me. We talked for six months for hours every single day. The moment I figured out that she was interested, I faltered. We set up a date to the movies, and my hands were shaking and I was totally nervous. In the movies though, I cracked some jokes and made her laugh, and she held my arm, which made me think that she was interested in me, either that are very flirtatious. Long story short, after the movies, she stopped talking to me at all, and I torture myself with wondering why. With wondering why I mess up right when I know she likes me, with wondering why I can't trust my abilities, with wondering why Im a good looking guy but still hone in on every glaring little flaw in my body and mind.
I know my confidence isnt that great, but I have to figure out what to fix so I dont ruin it next time. Im deeply sorry if this is too long, but I need some help. Thanks :) (link)
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all what I can say is is that .. you know what it wasnt meant to be BECAUSE.. all three girls you explained here got a vibe that they liked you but once they got to knwo you you arent there type and thats fine.. trust me.. if a girl really likes you she will respect you and will help you get better by not beign nervous or jittery and she wont mind you being clingry or talk hours in a day more then 6 months.. dont worry you worry so much that once you your mind is p[rogrammed to change when a girl says i like you.. well you need to reset your mind and tell yourself you know what if this girl liks me.. i havent changed yet.. so she obviously is interested in the person I am.. so why shouldI change? if I change.. you knwo she might not like that person because she liked or fell in love with the person who I changed... thats really why these girls aernt being with you.. you change.. no girl wants a guy to change.. they like you because your YOU yuor not someone or being macho you are yourself and since you changed they didnt want anything to do with it... trust me your 17 and you got a WHOLE life ahead of you you have nothing to worry about .. theer are sooo many girls out there you will find one and she wont turn you down like these have trust me and they are young some of them mimght be a bit immature too... hence no experience either.. but you have because you have tried different things like joking around , movies, hchanging, nervous flaws.. it lets you have a bigger outlook on how to be with a girl... its fine dont worry! your confidence now.. always you just said you are a good looking guy... you have SOME confidence... you need to not change and when you talk to a girl that says she likes you , do not think of it tha tmoment just really focus on itbeing another normal day wondering if she does actually trust me it will go well!! :)
this is a site or two and explore..
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Confident
http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/10-ways-to-instantly-build-self-confidence/
I personally like the first one better though :)
good luck!!!
ps NERVER EVER BE A LADIES GUY...
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When I run I lose my breath, If I keep running will I be be able to run without losing my breath?
I want to to be able to run around my park without losing my breath (link)
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its mostly because your not use to it.. you need to start out slow and calmy dont sprint just jog regularly.. each time go farther a bit and by time it will increase your ability to not loose your breathe it works by the end of a month or so you will be able to jog AND run around your park without losing your breathe just be careful and dont go too far you need to take it slow and let your body adjust trust me you will be like a marathon!! :) also like the others said try and it helps breathing out your mouth! AND DRINK LOTS OF WATER! and be motivational:d pretend your a superhero going to save the day or something
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I want to stop masterburting and i don't know what to do. Please help me. (link)
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dont look at porn it makes you lustful more.. ignore those ''sexy ads'' even if a girl gets you up ignore it.. if your not religious PLEASE TRY praying to God.. he will help you trust me tell him you need help and trust me it works look at testimonies he exists and he can help you you just need to ask... ''and you shall recieve'' also , go out with friends like the other person said and always keep busy like go and clean up go to te gym work out watch a funny movie occupy yourself!! hang out with your family make phone calls. and by the end of the night you will be too tired to think about anything and fall asleep trust me it will get you somuch better :) you can do it.
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I am a 26yr old Female and my baby sister is 21yrs old and this is her second time living with me and i am fed up, she has no visible goals and i now have a 4month old son and my fiance' is ready to move in.She has been back and forth between my house n a friends house and recently got a job but quit after a week.....what do i do ,because when i try to talk to her she always accuses me of not caring about her or not being there for her. i dont want to hurt her so can u please tell me how to handle this???? (link)
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well.. do you care about her? have you been nice to her? have you been caring?
tell her that you have a family and you dont need a babysitter(not best option it might work though) tell her shes always welcome here but you need SPACE.. you need SPACE.. and if she disagrees.. tell her she can take her stuff and give her some money to get a place and nothing else.. tell her she needs to be independent and that she cant be living there anymore.. as much as you like her tell her you need some space and that shes a grat babysitter but you need your space and she can be with her friends for a while.. its YOUR place its NOT hers.. so its really your choice what you want to do.. just dont be harsh
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Do you have a good relationship with your parents, or is it hard to be around them?
I was sexually abused, molested, raped, whatever you want to call it, when I was just 5 years old. It ended a little while after I turned 12, around the time I got my period. I guess I wasn't a 'little girl' anymore and my abuser lost interest. Anyway, I'm 18 now and that has stuck with me my entire life. It has had an astounding affect on my life. I had trouble connecting with people when I was younger. I trusted no one, I felt unloved, like I didn't deserve to be loved. I was a suicidal 9 year old at one point and I wouldnt have gotten through it if it wasn't for my older sister who was just a kid herself at the time. Ive always blamed my parents for what happened to me. It was a friend of theirs that abused me and Ive always hated my parents because I felt like they didn't protect me. At 9 years old I remember looking at my mother and thinking 'How could you let him do this me. Why can't you see that he's hurting me. Why won't you protect me, why don't you love me?'
So, I've always hated me parents. I took all my anger out on them and pushed them away. I've always wondered about how other people are with their parents. Sorry about my venting, but I'm really curious. What's your relationship like? (link)
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Well did they know she or he was doing it.. you can undo the past it happened I know its a horrible feeling but girl you have a whole future and ONE life.. not a cat like 9 lives but ONE.. please move on I mean you cant hate your parents all you want.. but they must feel guilt and saddness and frustration over what happened im sure they couldnt have seen it, they were blinded and decieved by their friend it happend and they are trying to work towards getting better for you no parent in this world wants to hurt and make you feel horrible trust me.. it will get better. please hug and confront them and tell them your sorry and bring them close instead of pushing away your suicidal is over and move on now... its not a good thing...
well my parents relationship... lot of screaming lately and I feel tremendously bad to them sometimes they get too much into privacy you know.. but in the end they are the ones that are saving you from being homeless supporting you ALWAYS BEING THERE FOR YOU no matter if it was bad or not.. they are there FOR YOU! they love you to pieces trust me they do.
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How old are you? Are you happy with your age? how's life treating you? (link)
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17... and im okay with my age just a lot more responsibilites are coming the way.. school..work..children you know its hard work.. plus life is treating me great ive just had a bad past that has been keeping me down the darka nd cgllomy road but I hope I get better... as a child everythign was so easy.. you just played ate and learned and laughed and ddint worry about anything,but now when you get older you have to learn so much more how to pay for a house.. life lessons , finding a job, good grades, being careful, and the list goes on and on and on.
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i am 16 and m dating a 17 year old boy we have been dating for three years and we in a distance relationship so he telling me we should have sex so that he can remember me when he's away (link)
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WOW! what an BUTTWHOLE! how are you still with him for 3 years? REALLY REMEBER BY HAVING SEX WITH HIM!? sorry for the caps.. wow that is horrible that is out of place and that is like that other guy said a horrible excuse... he is NOT worth your time dont have anything to do with him and dump him.. YOUR ANSWER SHOULD BE 100% NO , if you dont have sex with him.. he will forget about you.. so hes just enjoying the pleasure for himself.. seems to me hes not worth it.. so if you DO have sex with him.. he will remeber you.. HINT HINT.. remeber NOT you.. BUT remeber the SEX you gave him.. thats trash
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