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Hey! I'm seventeen and my boyfriend is eighteen. So the problem is whenever we're getting physical and what not he is super super super gentle. Like to the point where it's not even enjoyable. I mean I love how tender he is but I can always feel him being all catious and careful so I feel like he's not enjoying it or with it at all and thattt turns me off. I want him to actually get into it. I've brought it up with him a few times and he says he's scared he'll hurt or "break" me. I'm like 5'5, 105 lbs and he's 6 foot and pretty built... so I mean yeah I can see how he thinks he'd hurt me but I really don't think he could do that much damage... I just want to feel his intensity and I don't but I don't know how to show him that he doesn't have to be so tentative... (link)
well for starters you can tell him that your not in pain. second tell him that sex is not suppose to hurt unless he deliberately tries to hurt you. tell him not to lay back and that it's o.k. for him to be rough.


Meh and my boyfriend started having sex bout a mounth ago... he is my first so i realy dont knw much about it... we just now had sex without a condom and he said he pulled out before he came... i wanted to ask him how did he know that it some didnt get inside but i waz too shy n i knw i shudnt be shy when it cumz to that... my question is... iz it posible for a guy to pull out before they cum... and if he pulls out but before its all the way out he cumz just alil inside... cud you be pregnant??? thanz (link)
it is totally possible for a guy to pull out before he cums. a guy can feel it coming. and if he wasn't all the way in when he cumed, there is a extreamly slight chance that you could be pregnant. but it is nothing to worry about, it adds up to about a five and a quarter millionth of a percent chance that you could be pregnant. you are basicly more likely to be struck by lighting.


please don't think I'm a freak, but what is "jizz?" I'm only thirteen, so I want someone older to tell me. Am I a moron for asking this at such a young age? But what is it! I rate, so give me a reason to give youa 5. (link)
"jizz" is what comes out of a guy's penis when he has sex. "ejaculation" is the real term for when that happens. hope that helped.


Ok, I am a 14/f. Im not a virgin, but I have never 'sucked' a guy before. And i was just wondering. when you are sucking/blowing a guy. How do you know when to stop? Lol. Do you stop sucking when he is Jizzing or what? I really need help, cause i don't know. And it will be this friday. so please hurry up and answer. (link)
well he'll usually be lightly pushing your head into his cock, and if he is about to jizz, i suggest stopping because jizz dose not taste that good. hope i helped! :)


guys why do you like boobs so much? i don't get it, they're just like fat sacs. i asked my boyfriend and he said they were "beautiful" hah but i think they're ugly...idk can anyone answer my question? lol (link)
well for starters, it is a SEXUALLY attractive feature, meaning that a guy is sexually attracted to girls. second, just how most girls hate their boobs, almost all guy's hate their penis. and third, even though their just "sacks of fat" their are really fun to play with and jiggle around ;)


this is gonna sound so conceited haha but i get turned on by my own body. like i have big boobs and they just turn me on a guess. i'm completely straight i know that for a fact. i get turned on by guys and can only picture myself with a guy. thats why i find this so weird. why is this? does anyone else have this problem? (link)
well i don't have this problem (i'm a guy) but it is totally normal for a girl your age to turned on by your body. all it is is the hormones in your body. what usually happens is if you see yourself in the mirror or look down and see your boobs, you might be imagining yourself having sex or something. it is totaly normal and it also happens to guy's to. like, some guys flex their muscles and give themselfs boners. anyway it is totaly normal. hope i helped! :)


ok well you know how when guys get horny and stuff they get boners well what do girls get? (link)
the answer is simply nothing. girls will get horny but nothing really changes. their nipples can get hard and they will act more like a slut sometimes but other than that, nothing happens.


just wondering, haha..

how can you give your guy a boner without touching him? (link)
well one way is to wear tight clothing, ya know, reveal some more of your body. also smiling at guy's randomly will turn them on in a snap. also hte most important thing is show interest in them, the one thing most guy's hate is when a girl plays "hard to get". i hate it to. so be the person to ask him out instead, chances are, he'll say yes.


When me and my boyfriend are laying by eachother he gets a boner, when were making out he gets a boner.

why? (link)
well it's simple: guy's love girls. when a guy is close to a girl, or thinks about a girl, or see's a girl, his hormones start raging, and 95% of the time, he'll get a boner. simple. it is totally normal so don't freak out. hope i helped :)




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