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problems with family
my father hates me since i was 13 years old in now am 17. and am afriad of him ever since he had went to jail cause of me for abuse. my mom and him hasnt spoken sence and when i dream of him its like nightmare and i more afriad of him. I ALSO HIDE FROM HIM WHEN HIS IN THE HOUSE IN HE DONT EVEN ASK IF AM AROUND OR NOT!
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1. Talk to your mom
2. Why are you in the house alone with the dad that abuses you? I think you should be farther out
3. Go to a social worker you should be able to talk it out with someone you need help
4. I think you should move away as soon as possible.. go to your mom or other family memeber dont be anywhere near your dad.
5. Get a license restriction... why dont you have one now? you should look into it so you cant be near him in so many metres because he can get charged..
6. Please go and dont be scared.. nightmares are nightmares , dont let it get to your head..
7. GET OUT OF THERE!
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I'm not sure what your question is. What I am sure of is that you are probably in need of help to learn to deal with the abuse that sent your father to jail. This is not something you get over, it will never go away but you can learn to live with it without it ruining your life.
I would like you to call and organization called RAINN. RAINN stands for Rape, Abuse, Incest, National Network. They can help you find, through one of their centers near you, professional help to learn to properly deal with what has happened to you.
If your father abused you he should not be allowed around you now that he has been released from prison. They can help you with that as well. Please call RAINN at 1-800-656-HELP.
Should your father in any way shape or form threaten you or you feel threatened by him. Please do not hesitate to call the police. He has no right to threaten you in any way shape or form.
Please call the volunteers at RAINN. Tell them what has happened, what is happening and they can and will help you.
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So your question is.. Why does he hate you or how do you get over it??
Which ever your question is..
If he went to jail because of the abuse he was causing you then it's a very good idea to stay as far away as possible. It's not you. You did nothing wrong. Each parent that does this has different reasons,. and sometimes no reason at all to explain why they did what they did.
He probably doesn't ask for you because of the history that you two have.
and for the dream aspect of it. maybe you need to try facing him in your dreams and be like I am not afraid of you. You can't hurt me anymore?
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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