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Should i or shouldnt i
I really want to give this guy a blowjob but something is just telling me not to. What should I do?
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If you don't want to do something then don't do it. Remember, that your life is exclusively your own and you have to do what makes you personally happy. Don't let others interfere with your happiness or goals. They aren't you and only care about what you can do for them.
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If somethings telling you not to dont thats an instinct that souldnt be ignored and if you do it anyway youll prob regret it
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Well.. dont do it... if its telling you or ''something'' is telling you not to.. then please don't do it and dont get hurt :( , so many people get hurt because they rush
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If something is holding you back and you keep having second thoughts then don't do it.
When you're ready to do you'll know and you won't be having second thoughts. Sexual activites aren't always planned sometimes they just happen depending on the moment and you'll know then and there whether you're up for it or not.
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Listen to your instinct. It's there for a reason.
Take a look around this site and see how many girls (and occasional guys) are asking for advice on what to do because they jumped into a sexual relationship without being really ready for it. They had "something telling them not to" as well, but they ignored that voice.
There will always be people who give you advice on things, whether you ask for it (like you just did) or not. But the most important person to take advice from is YOURSELF. Right now, you are telling you not to do this. If I were you, I'd trust you on this one.
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It really depends on how long you've been going out, how much you care about him and how old you are. I know it's better to do that if you're not ready for sex and you want to keep him happy but sometimes the guy's just not worth it. You'll have to make that decision when the time comes but don't let some guy pressure you into doing something you don't want to. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Hey there.
Is "this guy" some random? or a your boyfriend..
if it is some random then no. You could contract an STI or anything. If it's your boyfriend and you don't feel pressured then yes its fine but as you said something is telling you not to well there is your answer. Your not ready. Wait until you are with someone you like and trust that way it will feel right and you won't regret it.
Don't do it because everyone else is either.
Hope this helps:) never rush into anything and be safe.
Much <3
Jess 18/f
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You have a feeling to not do this than dont your gut is your best bet.
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