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Why am I so picky?
I finally had alone time with the guy that is so sweet to me and just amazing to me. We had a ton of fun, and for some reason I always look at the stupid little flaws and they make me think and then I feel so freaking stupid. I mean I don't like chest hair, and that bothered me and I don't get why I do that because he is cute and has the perfect smile and perfect career, yet that little feature bugs me and I need help and a new mind set, someone help me. ):
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pretty much what the other advicenator said.. everyone has flaws and you just have to learn how to deal with them.
but i have 1 more thing to add. Sometimes if you deal with their flaws, you'll eventually love them. My boyfriend has a really funny sneeze. When I first met him, I thought it was such a huge turn off haha and I just hated it, the sound, the way he covered his sneeze, ugh it just disgusted me. but after dating him for a year, I soon realized that now I love his adorable little sneeze :) You want to know why? because its HIS sneeze. Nobody I know sneezes like that and it makes me happy because I found something unique about him and i've learned to love it.
So just deal with the flaws and eventually you'll learn to love them and appreciate them :)
Nothing is perfect. Beauty is not perfection. Beauty is looking past the imperfections.
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Think about it are you really interested then?
They say nobodys perfect however if you really like or love someone the flaws never matter, you don't even realise their flaws or they just don't bother you at all.
When you think about it everyone has a flaw, i'm pretty sure you do as well. Don't let a good guy go because you found one thing wrong with him, chest hair can always be removed, imagine someone letting you go because they found a flaw with you? You seem to really like him and he seems to really treat you good, don't let that go, you'll get over it sooner or later.
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