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Says he cares
So , if someone says they care about you.. so this guy said he cares about me... and stuff.. and like it might sound stupid , but its odd.. we went to get pizza... and im like oh im going to get pizza.. and after I bought it 4 bucks!!! I ate it and it wasn't too good.. and he says.. '' oh yeah I know just looking at it was gross... sorry.. I should have spoke up and told you... it looked really gross''
like if he cares why doesnt he tell me not to buy it? its like he says it but doesnt mean it.
another thing... I always have to be the one doing oral... I never have gotten oral done to me.. I asked him I want the same back and he still doesn't do it.. what to do?
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Eh I could agree with the user below me, It does sound like he may be using you for his own benefit.
I'm not going to say he cares but I will say I think he may be ignorant, I don't know the guy but for some odd reason I seem to get that vibe from what you've wrote. If you are giving him oral sex and you aren't getting it in return then tell him that you aren't comfortable doing something you won't get in return. Better yet, Just stop giving it too him. Now, About the "using" you part...Do you pay for everything? Does he do this kind of stuff all the time? Boyfriend and girlfriends should go halves or share expenses. It is 100% wrong to have one spouse constantly contributing to all cost of the relationship. I can't really say whether he is using you or not as you didn't give much detail but if you feel he is then you should follow your gut and either have a serious talk with him about it or leave his dead beat ass.
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He doesn't really sound like he cares, it sounds more he's using you....
If a guy really liked a girl and cared, don't you think he'd want to give her the same pleasure he recieved? Let him go, he's a waste of time, he's a waste of your time! You can do better.
He sounds like a prick, when you let him go, he'll most likely question you and be stupid and wonder why, you can either explain or you can simply say you're an idiot no more no less.
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