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He treated me bad, cheated on me, dumped me many times... and I still like him?
ok im a sophomore this year and i dated this jerk in 7th grade and he was awful to me and dumped me repeatedly and cheated on me so much and i dumped him the last time and totally refuse to talk to him. i seriously hate him like everytime hes around or i hear about him i got instantly heated and angry. its been like 4 years and im still not over him even though i make it seem like i am. what can i do?
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He cheated on you (when you were 12) so you feel humiliated. You also lost him to another girl and given how fiercely women are competitive with each other, you really resent coming out on the negative end of the score.
Look, you can't keep living in the past. Learn from your past experiences, but your continuing to be so angry about this four years on makes me afraid you might be a psycho. Learn to let go and move on. If you can't, you need to see a therapist.
I mean, my God, your contretempts with him happened in junior high. Have a sense of proportion.
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You need to go out! and find someone NEW! get around other people go away from him and loose all contacts with him... he treated you so badly.. I heard when guys treat women badly it lets the brain be more involved in thinking and always up to something if he hadnt then you would be bored and your brain wouldnt focus so much on him , but thats just what I heard once OR read! but I think you should really stop talking or thinking or asking questions about him , its been a while and you really did like him and it must really hurt... I know because he hurt you and that scar is on you for a very long time and it takes time to heal but you need to let it go , once you let it go everything will work out
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Well it's obvious that the feelings that you had formed for him were real and that you actually let your heart go and you gave it to him. You still think about the good times correct? Well that is because you gave your heart out on the person that treated you right, in the first place. If you still think about it and it happens continuously I would suggest talking to a counselor about how you are feeling and finally let go of him. You will be happier once you let go of what once was. Good luck sweetie.
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