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Hi! I'm a 20 year old female and I'm very short and petite. I'm 5 ft. Tall and I weight about 108 pounds. I'm at my weight but because I'm so short and small framed, I would feel more comfortable weighing about 96 to 98 pounds. I have weighed much more than now and much less and 96 before. I am comfortable now but I know I'd be much more comfortable at 98 or even 100 because of my size and structure. I am going to start a healthy diet but I guess what I'm looking for is tips. Since I don't have much to lose, how can I lose it quickly and stay motivated? Thanks xoxo (link)
the best way is doing exercise start with little and then with more, try to it a lot of healthy stuff also fat free stuff etc. well everything your healthy diet contains. and some way you can stay motivated is: buy a pair of jeans, or a dress anything thats its a smaller size your motivation in here is that you are going to be able to wear it when you loose your pounds. ;)
but dont forget exercise i am in a healthy diet and trust me without exercise i don think i would loose so many pounds.
good luck!!


There is a guy who accidentally texted me as a wrong number. I told him it was wrong, but he continued texting me on multiple occasions, knowing I was someone he didn't know. We had some nice conversations and flirted a bit. He lives about three hours away from me and is 16. He wants to come visit me, but he can't drive. I'm 17 and can drive, but not that far - my parents wouldn't let me. I wouldn't want to either because I don't really know him. One day he got very intense with the flirting and asked if he were to ask me out what I would say. I told him maybe, clearly stressing that we don't each other and would have to get to know each other in order for me to date him. He then asked that if we dated if we would make out a lot. This kind of creeped me out. He also asked if we were now dating, I told him no because we have never met. I haven't texted him since that time and have just ignored his texts, but I feel bad. I don't know what to do and my friends tell me just to continue ignoring him, but I don't want to hurt him. Help! He also asked for a picture, but i refused to send one saying my phone was broken. He wanted to friend me on Facebook but I never told him my last name and he never asked for it. (link)
if i were you i would be careful because its really weird he get your ipod number he may be a dangerous guy and he is younger and maybe he worth it but you dont know if you can trust him


I am a 13 year old girl and theres this kid I like. We just met but my mom knows his grandma and that's how we met. And he lives in a diff state far away from me and he's here only for one more week. We both like eachother and we've hungout twice and we text and talk on the phone and we've almost held hands and hugged and stuff. Idk if he wants to make the first move or not. So how do I make he first move to hold his hand? Any advice helps! Thanks! :) (link)
touch his hand and make it as if it was an accident but you should let him make the first move and hold your hand


This is some of the things my bf does:

1) When I'm texting/calling someone when I'm with him he asks me who I'm texting/on the phone with.

2) He reads my texts over my shoulder.


3) If I talk to another guy he gets very jealous and upset. We were at a party the other day and I was talking to a guy there off and on and he told me he got very jealous and felt I was ignoring him.

4) He's very jealous of my gay (guy) best friend because we hang out a lot and I've known him for years.

4) If I text him back at a slow pace he gets very angry with me, but if he takes long to text back I'm not supposed to be mad at him..

5) He always wants to do what HE wants to do.

6) We live about an hour from eachother and he always makes me go out there to see him bc he doesnt feel like driving here.

7) If I go out with friends he always, in a mean tone, asks me what I did and for details, etc.

8)If I leave his house and we don't talk for about an hour (through texting) he'll text me to see what I'm doing.

There's more but that's the majority of it.... (link)
my opinion is that you are a really especial person to him and he doesnt want to loose you and wants to be with you in bad and bad monets try to talk to him (nicely) and who knows maybe he got a crush with you thats why you need to talk to him too see whats the matter


I have some really close guy friends and they dont even know all of me, i have been hanging out with them for about five,six or seven months, we are all very close and tell each other everything.
The thing is,they think i am full on tomboy, they think i am a gamer, love horror movies and dress like a guy and they are completely right,that is me but i also like playin around with makeup with my friends and talkin about guys and dressing up and getting pretty when going out for something special like going out for dinner at a restaurant.
I feel that if they know i am like this aswell they might not like me and will be different around me,
i am a tomboy on the inside but i am a mix between a girly girl and a tomboy on the outside.
I just want to them to act and feel the same around me,
Please help! (link)
be yourself and dont be scared if they liked you before i think they would now. Never forget to be yourself show them the real you


A friend of mine constantly changes guys. The thing is, she will only talk to them for a few days and think she is "in love" with them. I try to explain to her that she is not. Currently, she is stuck on a guy from another part of the state and she calls him her boyfriend and says she loves him and cannot go on without him. How can I give her a reality check without checking out of our friendship? (link)
you should tell her that she is a really special person so she has to be with a guy that really matters


my dad wont let me date does he not trust me or what
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he just want to protect you




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