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My girlfriend wants to give me a handjob but im afraid im too small.

Question Posted Sunday July 24 2011, 9:12 pm

My girlfriend and me whenever we hang out she always just reaches her hands down my pants and she says she wants to give me a handjob...weve been dating for 7 months and i dont think that she will notice that im small since its her first handjob...i really want one but im afraid she will think im too small....what should i do?

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adviceman49 answered Monday July 25 2011, 10:36 am:
I know you are only thinking about a handjob at this time. I thought the information that follows will help you feel better about your own package size.

To be blunt your penis is designed to do two things. First and foremost it is designed for a male to urinate with. Second it is designed to deliver sperm to a women's vagina. If your penis is functioning properly then it will be able to preform it's two main functions regardless of size.

Again to be blunt and to put it differently than another adviser did: it is not the size that matters, what matters is the person behind the penis that matters.

According to the latest Ansel Research Survey; the average male penis when erect is between 5.1 & 5.9 inches long, Average Vagina Size:

Length 3 1/2 to 4 inches
Diameter 1 Inch

Length ("tented) 5 to 6 inches
Diameter 1 1/2 to 2 inches

As you can see by the size chart of the average female vagina. Any penis over 6 inches in length and 2 inches in girth is larger than the average vagina can easily accommodate. A larger penis will cause a woman with an average sized vagina pain during intercourse, especially if the male is not a thoughtful and considerate lover.

Don't worry that you are not hung like some of the porn stars you may see. Not all porn stars are hung like that. Most are average size.

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Barbie7056 answered Monday July 25 2011, 12:46 am:
Relax darling. Size doesn't matter! as long ar u rock what you've got then its all good. If you have been together for 7 months congratulations and she likes you for you and not the size of your package. Just relax and be confident as she will be a little nervous if its her first time giving one. Good luck. Hope this helped!! =)

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Xui answered Monday July 25 2011, 12:32 am:
If your girlfriend were to judge you by your size then obviously your girlfriend is too immature to be in a relationship period. Looks and size shouldn't be important, If someone appreciates you for who you are they are not going to give two flying shits what you look like. You are over thinking it, Go with the flow and have a good time but be safe about what you do.

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Lessthan3ofgod answered Sunday July 24 2011, 10:35 pm:
Don't be scared that you are too small. Explain to your girlfriend that you are just feeling a little self concious and that you feel she may judge you. Just talk to her about if first, since I'm sure you two are comfortable with eachother. Be honest with her and let her have her own opinion! She'll love you no matter what if she is a TRUE girlfriend. (: Good luck!

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