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I think I'm Bi-Sexual
Ok so, I'm a fifteen year old High school Student, I've been having some really conflicting issues, and I realized that I always look at questions around here for fun, so when I had an issue, why not come here. Well Like I said I'm a male high school student, and I don't really know what I am. I'm going to 10th grade, throughout my 9th grade school year I had a friend (we'll call him Clyde lol) that asked be to do sexual stuff, and an experimenting sense, so two times we exchanged oral sex, once in a bathroom, and once in the woods next to our school. Now there was another Guy I know that aksed me the same thing (call him Greg) and he just wouldnt leave me alone, askeing for naked pictures, asking to have sex, he was pathetic and extremely annoying, so Yesterday I told him it's never going to happen and to just leave me alone. Now my third friend is an open Bi-Sexual we will call him (Aaron) I met him when he was dating one of my female friends, we would text and talk all the time, we became really close friends, one day I heard "Aaron's" girlfriend saying how she didnt like to kiss him and all, so me being the idiot that I am, I told him, and he said thanks, I guess over the next 48 hours they talked and she denied this, he accused me of lying, and we didnt talke for two months. In a plot to take revenge I tried to break them up, he confronted me in a texting conversation, everything was laid on the table and we moved on to become friends again. He confessed to liking me, I considered my self as straight at the time (I hadnt had oral sex with Clyde yet) was shocked, so I waved it off and claimed i was still figuring out who I am. Meanwhile I met a girl one year younger than me, we started talking and flirting, it was just a very flirtatious friendship. this was November, when Aaron started asking me if I wanted to have Sex with him Oral. We joked about it all the time but I knew he was serious. I kept saying maybe. My relationship with the girl..(Lily i guess) was moving along, but at Christmas it ended, it started again this past June and ended again, we're now STRICT friends. So not much happened except once in February that was the first time Clyde and I had Oral and then once again in May, Now yesterday...August, I brutally ended my friendship with Greg, after his annoying requests of naked pictures and sex. Lately I've been texting Aaron a lot, and I really want to be friend with him, like good friends, and we were playing the question game and he asked me if Id ever have sex with a guy, I said I was curious, especially about anal sex. He said I should let him top me, and I could top him back, hes already had EVERY version of sex with both girls and guys hes only a year older (16) but he's a really cool guy. Also yesterday Clyde texted me and said he'd gotten his license he's in my grade but has an early birthday so he's 16. He asked if I wanted to experiment like last year, only this time we could drive to my house, and do it. So far I haven't had a relationship feelings about guys, only sexual, what do you guys think of this? Oh and before 9th grade when most of this happened I was in a long term 3 year relationship with a Girl (Alice)
What do you guys think of my situation? All advice is welcome and I'd really appreciate it ! Thanks in advance ! :)
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be careful and if you still don't know if your bi you should maybe talk to a close friend that wont tell anyone. just be careful and i hope everything works out for you :)
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From the sounds of it, you are definitely bi-sexual. You are curious, and if you are so curious then why not try it out? It happens, to all of us, sometimes?
Just be careful with what you are doing, use a condom definitely. You don't want no diseases, that would be terrible, especially with the fact you were just curious.
Don't tell other guys about this, because a lot of guys are assholes about that type of situation. So be careful with who you tell. It's highschool, it will get around by just telling one person. Be careful with who you trust.
Good luck :D
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Ony you know your sexuality. Nobody can answer that for you. And experimenting is ok. Just because you want to experiment with guys does not mean you are homosexual or bisexual, it means you are curious. I am assuming that we know you are attracted to females. And I would say to experiment some. But be VERY careful! Always use protection! STD's (or STI's or VD's, whatever you want to call them) can be spread very quickly, especially if someone has had multiple sexual partners. I don't think there is anything wrong with experimenting, just be smart about it and always use protection. And it all really depends on if the male anatomy turns you on. I have a gay male friend who HATES bottoming. He is a homosexual, but he hates to bottom. So it all depends on if the male anatomy turns you on. If you have any other questions that you would like to ask me, please feel free to. I check my account daily. I hope some of this has helped!
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