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Gender: Female Member Since: May 1, 2011 Answers: 13 Last Update: May 19, 2011 Visitors: 2000
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can brother and sister have sex? (link)
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siblings can have sex. its just based on what you believe in whether you think its right or wrong.
in my opinion it would be wrong but then again its all up to you if you want to.
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Ok so i am tired of people assuming i am emo and gothic, there's nothing wrong with gothics or emos, but i am soooo tired of people thinking i am when i am not. SO my question is How do i make people stop thinking i am gothic or emo?????? please help me (link)
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i've been judged all my life being called emo and psychotic so i what you mean. the only way you can get them to stop is to show them that you dont care. they need to see that them calling you emo or gothic doesnt bother you. once they see that then they'll stop. the only reason they call you that is cause they know it bothers you. once they see that you dont care then it'l be no fun for them to call so it'll die out
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in 6th and 7th grade this guy would follow me home and stand out side my house it turns out he goes to my school so i told the principle and she didn't do anything but she told me that he was bipolar and that he would eventually stop it kinda did but now when im walking my dog i always always see him and in the hallways he gives me this creepy smirk and watches me all the time what should i do i know she said it would stop but its been 3 darn years and its fudging scary (link)
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If this boy doesnt stop and the principle doesnt do anything about it then you should tell your parents to talk to your principle. If the principle still doesnt do anything about it and he doesnt stop then go to the cops. Because stalking might just be the beginning. If he is bipolar then god knows what hes capable of doing.
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Ok, so i am good.friends(NOT dating) with a boy in my class, but today he treated me like an enemy. I talked to him and he said "ugggg. Be quiet! Ur realyyy annoying me!" And earlyer he called me a stalker. Is he just having a bad day? (We normaly get along nicley.) Or does he hate me now?oh and we are both eleven and im a girl. (link)
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If you guys normaly get along perfect and he all of a sudden treats you that way then yes he probably did have a bad day. either that or something is bothering him. Give him some space for a little bit because no one likes being bothered especially when things arent going their way. When he seems to have cooled down then talk to him
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im 16 years old girl. me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and 2 months. we used to be the best boyfriend ever! but here lately, it feels like things are changing. hes just been so rude to me. when he asks were i am, hes like were the fu*k are you and stuff. i love him so much and dont want to end it. i just dont know if being with him is worth it anymore. i dont know what to do if i should just end it or not (link)
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He is probably being insecure if he talks to you like that. If he keeps being rude to you then you should tell him straight up that he cant be treating you that way. If he keeps treating you that way then just ignore him and make him see that you wont tolerate his act and bs.
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I decided to give my ex another chance. We dated for 3 years and of course I still have feelings for him. Plus he was the guy I lost my virginity too, and the only person I've ever been with. He hurt me by saying it's not going to work since he's leaving again for the military. I just don't understand why he would pretend he still had feelings for me, just to toss me to the side again. I'm heartbroken, and I feel like a fool for letting my feelings get involved again. I've been doing great in all my classes, and six months later he calls and wants to hang out and puts all these lies into my head. I don't know what to do... Please help me?
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From how i see it i think he really does have feelings for you. You guys didnt break up for no reason, you guys broke up because he had to return to the military. He's only really thinking of you. He doesnt want to hold you back from having a life and make you wait for him while hes in the military. God forbidd something happens to him while he's at service, he doesnt want you to feel the pain of having someone you love die. If he spends all his time with you every time he gets back then he must really have feelings for you.
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My mom gets really angry really easily. I'm her only daughter and i'm 16 and she treats me like i'm disposable.
Like today she found out that I missed school because the power went out and screwed up my alarm clock last night.
I told her what happened and she refused to believe me and made up all sorts of crazy delusions in her head about what she thinks really happened. She started screaming and cussing me out and telling me that she's going to call social services and have them come take me away because she hates me so much and that she thinks i'm a complete failure.
Every time anything go's the least bit wrong she go's nuts. She makes up scenarios in her head that never actually happened and lets them build her anger up.
Every single day she explodes about something and always takes it out on me.
She thinks she's the perfect parent though and whenever shes around anybody else she acts positively angelic.
I'm always being accused of something and I never get a say in the matter. If I try to explain myself she slaps me and tells me to shut up.
Yet she'll go on an on about how I abuse her trust and how she's the perfect parent and that I don't deserve her.
I really think she hates me.
She always insults me and belittles everything I do. Nothing is ever good enough for her and every day I come home from school to a pissed off mother who stresses me out the point i've thought about calling DCF.
She's even gotten angry to the point she pushed me down the stairs and hit me with a pan.
I'm in all honors classes with A's and B's and i've never been to the discipline office for anything.
I don't know why she thinks i'm such a horrible monster but she does and it drives me crazy.
What can I do about her?
I can't live with my dad because he lives in a really tiny 1 bedroom apartment with 13 cats and a 12 hour job. He barely has enough money for himself and his pets so he wouldn't be able to take care of me.
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Your mom has issues. She must think that your going to fail in life. she must have had troubles growing up and shes probably afraid that you might mess up. what she is doing is not right because no one is perfect. and how she handles you is just plain wrong.
You need to hang in there and try not to let her actions get to you. If worse comes to worse then you'd have to go to child services. You sound like an intelligent girl and you dont deserve this kind of abuse especially from your mom. Even though you love your mom you must think of whats best for you. Its going to be hard but try to keep your head up for now while your with her.
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So, i've just broken up with this girl. Actually, we both did it, since she is kinda too young for me i guess? im 18 and she is 16.
I keep trying to erase her from my life because the pain is just too strong, and she is doing the same thing. She stopped texting, deleted me off FACEBOOK, stopped calling, and she ignores me whenever i call her, ON PURPOSE.
And i found out why. I always thought that it was because she was soooo "done" with me, like she said and her friends said.
But the real reason why is that she is scared......... She started texting me again last week for almost a whole day, then she suddenly stopped because she realised thats he was falling for me again, and thought that having a boyfriend would keep her from "living a normal life" and i personally think it is BS, because i know DEEP down that she wants to be with me. She is just so goddamn influenced by her friends, her mom, etc.
How do i know if i should keep pursuing this? Or should i just get over it. Because fate tells me that she is the one, but how do i know? I mean, im a guy, with a big ego, who could easily get girls, so it is fairly easy for me to get OVER girls. But this girl.... omg i just dont know. No matter how much she blows me off, I STILL want her... and i know she wants me. How can i convince her to just follow her heart and to stop listening to her friends? Is she the one? HELP! (link)
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In life we all have that special someone that we truly love and sometimes we dont realize it until we lose them. Love is a mysterious and tricky thing.
If she gives off the vibe that she still wants to be with you and you do too then you should go for it. You both shouldnt let what others may think or say decide what's best for you. Only you guys can decide that. If you feel she really is THE ONE then you should talk to her. Be nice and tell her exactly what you feel for her. No matter how things go if you tell her what you feel for her atleast she'll know you truly did love her and cared.
I let the one i truly loved escape me so i know how it feels.
If you need anymore help message me on here or e-mail me at rcmshady@sbcglobal.net i'll be more than happy to help you
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My mum and dad are so controlling.
I'm fifteen years old and they wont let me out on my own. When I went on dates with me ex, they only let me go out for two hours.
How can i make them less controlling? (link)
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you have to prove yourself and earn their trust.
it might take awhile but if you play you cards right with them they will eventually lighten up
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Well, i had a sleepover at mine once, and as girls do, as a joke we played dares, but not normal dares, you know, the kissing sort, and i had to kiss my friend (Lauren) and i really enjoyed it? then when everyone went to sleep, i decided to tell Lauren thati strangley enjoyed it, and she said 'yeah, me too' it was silent for a little bit, then i accidently tounch her genitals (Vagina to be exact) and i went to let go, then she touched mine, she slipped her hands down my pants and started rubbing my vagina. i really enjoyed it :S the we starting kissing. we went upstairs and we started having lesbian sex. we both really liked it. but we havnt told anyone. am i a lesbian or bisexual? (Sorry its very long) (link)
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if you enjoyed doing it with your friend and still want to then yes u are. if it was just a one time thing then you were just experimenting but if you keep doing it and you like it then yes you are bi/lez
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okay i was over my friends house and we were watching t.v..... then she asked meh to kiss her so i did......so as we were making out she started sucking my boobs and then i went down and ate her out for like 20 secs. then she fingered me and i did it back....i felt nasty after i came..nd i never wanted to do it again...but she want to do it again should i do it.? ugh this is soooooooo immbarrasing.! (link)
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well if you dont feel comfortable doing something then you shouldnt do it.
theres no point in going along the ride if your not going to enjoy it. if you feel that you dont want to then you should try and explain to your friend that you felt wierd after doing so but that you want to stay friends with them.
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I really love my crush, but Im not sure to invite him or not should I or not? SOS 1 ZILLION TIMES!! (link)
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you should invite him and take the chance. it won't hurt to ask and it might even turn out great if you do. he might even feel the same for you and might just be waiting. invite him and see how it goes :)
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For a long time i have felt out of place, heartless i am unable to feel any emotions, i dont mourn deaths , i can't love and i feel drained of any kind of emotion besides anger; is this normal? (link)
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i have experience that feeling in my life before. usually when you feel dead or just plain out emotionless it might be because something happened to you bringing you down. if you feel angry all the time then it might have been that someone has done something to you and your unabe to let go in that case you are unable to feel anything besides anger and hate.
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