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i think i might be Bisexual?
Well, i had a sleepover at mine once, and as girls do, as a joke we played dares, but not normal dares, you know, the kissing sort, and i had to kiss my friend (Lauren) and i really enjoyed it? then when everyone went to sleep, i decided to tell Lauren thati strangley enjoyed it, and she said 'yeah, me too' it was silent for a little bit, then i accidently tounch her genitals (Vagina to be exact) and i went to let go, then she touched mine, she slipped her hands down my pants and started rubbing my vagina. i really enjoyed it :S the we starting kissing. we went upstairs and we started having lesbian sex. we both really liked it. but we havnt told anyone. am i a lesbian or bisexual? (Sorry its very long)
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Don't worry about this at all. Girls always do this kind of 'touching' eachother. You are totally normal. Everybody is a little bisexual, anyway. Girls experiment with this stuff all the time, and I am sure half the girls at your school are worried about this. Don't worry xxxx
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Don't worry about the labels. At your age at least some experimentation is normal. Just live in the moment, relax and just see how things transpire. You might be bisexual or just bi-curious or you may later decide to go either straight or become a lesbian. Just do what makes you happy for that moment and be grateful for what you learned from your experiences. Every day is a transition, right?
Definitely avoid the female curse of overthinking. That never ends well.
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There is no reason to label yourself as a lesbian this early in life. You definitely have bi-sexual tendencies right now, which is totally normal. Your friend seems as though she is bi-sexual but she needs to keep up a normal appearance at school for her friends and probably family. It's hard to want to spend time with someone and be with them sexually when you know that they're spending time with someone else and may be doing things with them. Let me know how things go with your friend. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Considering you really enjoyed kissing her and having sex with her, and you never felt uncomfortable at all throughout this or after this then it is likely that you do like girls. However there's one simple way to actually figure this out. It's what I did, you look at guys bodies on the internet or look for hot guys just go on google images and you decide whether or not you personally find them attractive. And you do the same with girls. If you find that you think both the women and men are attractive then you could be Bisexual. However if you only find men attractive then, Lauren, is just an exception, somebody whom you really enjoy doing sexual things with. And if you find only girls attractive then you could be Lesbian. But you have plenty of time to be figuring these things out so relax. Its perfectly natural to explore your sexuality and so long as you do it safely which I hope you are and nobody gets hurt then its fine. Hope this helps, good luck xx
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Hi, I'm probably old enough to be your grandfather. I hope the wisdom that comes with age and life experience will be helpful to you.
I would be hesitant to place a label on your sexuality. At this age both boys and girls are still trying to figure out their sexuality. To label yourself as a Lesbian or even bi-curious would not only be wrong but self defeating at this time. To even put this in the category of a phase that most young people go through would not be right either.
There are a number of reasons for sexual attraction to someone of our own sex at this age. First and foremost is the fact it is safer and easier to relieve the sexual tension brought on by the changing hormones your body is producing. Parents think nothing of two children of the same sex being behind closed doors, sleeping together, even in the same bed, particularly females.
I have known women that have been bi all through college, then gone straight heterosexual afterwards. Reason it was easier and sex was more available if you were bi; it was also safer.
My advice: Don’t put a label on your sexuality at this time. Just enjoy learning about who you are sexually. When you are older if you still want to put a label on your sexuality then do so, but for now just enjoy being you.
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if you enjoyed doing it with your friend and still want to then yes u are. if it was just a one time thing then you were just experimenting but if you keep doing it and you like it then yes you are bi/lez
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Well if she has a boyfriend then you shouldn't be doing that. By the way how old are you? And it depends if you only like her or if you like other girls too..
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