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Fairness or just straight out favoratism
Ok so recently my phone broke. Bummer! I think my bro broke it
About two mOnths ago my phone was Perfectly fine it was a Pretty cool phone touchscrean full keyboard the keyboard intead of sliding up it flipped up
Well since my brOther always prefered to buy himself videogames instead of a phone I would let him use mine I had really no problem but sometimes we would fight cause when I was using it he would DEMAND that I let him use it like if it was his and in one occasion he pined me down on my bed and told me if I didn't give it to him he would hit me! Btw he's 17 and in 15
One day I lent it to him for the week end but when he gave it to me the part of the phone witch held the screen to the keaybored was broken and the screen kinda dangled it still fully worked but he refused to admit he broke it after using it all weekend! And no one else used it well a couple weeks after I lent it to him for another weekend and when he gave it back he told me that he sat on it and cracked the screen ! Well another couple of weeks passed and he bought a new phone but he still didn't have money to connect it so I use it as an alarm well I lent my phone to him for another weakened and he told me it had run out of battery when I put it to charge and turned it on it had a completely black screen so I got mad and ofcorse he said he hadn't done it! I asked if I could borrow his new phone while he got the money to connect his and he said NO! I couldn't force him and I was kinda sad cause well it hurt cause a year or so ago I got a phone and he asked for it and without a thought I gave it to him! my mom noticed and I told her what happened and she initiator took me brothers side! She said I was crazy and selfish for asking him
Ofcorse I think I'm write and she and brother and mom think their write so Plzz help me
P. S I bought that phone with my own mOney as well
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Alright, first I'd suggest that you sit down with your mom and explain to her the exact situation. Tell her that for the past year you were letting your brother borrow your phone, and even when you told him know he'd threaten to hit you. Make it very clear that you just found it very unfair of him to do that, and maybe talk to your mom about getting him to help pay for you to get a new phone to replace the one he broke. From what it sounds like, it seems like your mother is acting like she has a favorite, which is something I think you should also try to talk to her about. All you need to do is tell her how what she's doing is making you feel, and see how it goes from there. Goodluck and keep smiling! :)
~RF
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From where i am it seems as though your mum is being favourist. But, maybe it is for a reason as he is older and needs a phone more? But due to the fact that he did break your phone and you paid for it yourself i don't think this is right. I would talk to another relative or friend of your mum that could convince her to help you, otherwise the only option would be to buy another phone and not lend it to people.
Hope this helps;
JazzLouise xo
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