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Location: England<3
Member Since: April 16, 2011
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Last Update: May 2, 2011
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Ok so recently my phone broke. Bummer! I think my bro broke it
About two mOnths ago my phone was Perfectly fine it was a Pretty cool phone touchscrean full keyboard the keyboard intead of sliding up it flipped up
Well since my brOther always prefered to buy himself videogames instead of a phone I would let him use mine I had really no problem but sometimes we would fight cause when I was using it he would DEMAND that I let him use it like if it was his and in one occasion he pined me down on my bed and told me if I didn't give it to him he would hit me! Btw he's 17 and in 15
One day I lent it to him for the week end but when he gave it to me the part of the phone witch held the screen to the keaybored was broken and the screen kinda dangled it still fully worked but he refused to admit he broke it after using it all weekend! And no one else used it well a couple weeks after I lent it to him for another weekend and when he gave it back he told me that he sat on it and cracked the screen ! Well another couple of weeks passed and he bought a new phone but he still didn't have money to connect it so I use it as an alarm well I lent my phone to him for another weakened and he told me it had run out of battery when I put it to charge and turned it on it had a completely black screen so I got mad and ofcorse he said he hadn't done it! I asked if I could borrow his new phone while he got the money to connect his and he said NO! I couldn't force him and I was kinda sad cause well it hurt cause a year or so ago I got a phone and he asked for it and without a thought I gave it to him! my mom noticed and I told her what happened and she initiator took me brothers side! She said I was crazy and selfish for asking him
Ofcorse I think I'm write and she and brother and mom think their write so Plzz help me
P. S I bought that phone with my own mOney as well (link)
From where i am it seems as though your mum is being favourist. But, maybe it is for a reason as he is older and needs a phone more? But due to the fact that he did break your phone and you paid for it yourself i don't think this is right. I would talk to another relative or friend of your mum that could convince her to help you, otherwise the only option would be to buy another phone and not lend it to people.

Hope this helps;
JazzLouise xo


A couple of months ago I got back into contact with a guy I went to school with. I had always had a thing for him and as soon as we started talking again all the old feelings came back. We are both from the same city but at different universities which are at least 6 hours apart.

When we were both back in our hometown for the Easter break, we met up a couple of times. He was very keen and at first I felt that he liked me more than I liked him. We were also still talking all the time. I thought it was going really well. After our third date, he asked when he could see me again and we arranged that I would go to his house a few days later. After that I suddenly stopped hearing from him and on the day we were supposed to see each other, he cancelled at the last minute. The next day, I asked if I was going to see him before I went to my grandparents' house for a few days and he said I could come over that night. Again, he cancelled at the last minute. After that he went back to university and I didn't hear from him for over a week.

On Friday night, after not hearing from him for so long, he invited me over to his friend's house because he was back in town for a few days. He seemed really pleased to see me and when I asked why I hadn't heard from him he said he didn't know when I was coming back from my grandparents' house, which I thought was a bit of a lame excuse but accepted it because he was being so nice. We ended up having sex that night and at the time I made it really clear that I liked him and didn't want to just not hear from him again. The next day he was texting me telling me how amazing the night had been.

I'm going back to university today so I hinted that I would like to see him before I went. He asked me what time I was leaving but after that he went quiet again.

I'm really confused because before we started 'seeing' each other he told me how he was sick of sleeping around and wanted a girlfriend. He was the one who seemed really keen and told me he really liked me but he keeps going off the radar.

We're both going to be back at university until the end of May now so we won't see each other. Is it worth bothering to try and keep in touch with him or should I just forget about it? I really like him but I'm not prepared to embarrass myself by constantly chasing after him and I don't want to scare him off by asking him straight out what's going on.

I'm 19, he's 21. (link)
You seem as though you do have quite a strong connection to have got together after not seeing each other for such a long time. But how sure are you that he was genuine, and wasn't just using you? I think you need to really think about this and this should aid your decision. But also, if you find there is a reason for the way he behaves and he is very into you then continue your relationship.
Never stop a relationship because you think it will be hard due to something like distance, as the best things are worth fighting for.

Hope this helps;
JazzLouise xo


this question is more or less for my friend; nick
he likes this girl named meredith, and shes apperently really emotional. My used-to-be best friend Jeff, begins to hit on her. I dont believe its too bad of an issue only Jeff has a girlfriend of 10 months and is sexting her.
she isnt interested and she went to tell his girlfriend Bryanna about the situation, and she starts to yell at her. Meredith ends up in tears, and Jeff does man up to take the blame. Bryanna doesn't believe anyone but Jeff because to her Jeff is always right. Im in a pretty bad situation seeing as Bryanna is a good friend as is NIck
But what should HE do?
Nick is 15/m Meredith 15/f Bryanna 16/f Jeff 16/m
im 15/f
pleaseee help
hugs&rockets-MiiCHii (link)
Well, this is all quite a confusing story :S But now is a very good time for Nick to make his move on Meredith. She will be quite upset i am guessing? And he can really become close to her. Once they are rather close or whilst they are becoming close he should start flirting and hopefully it will develop.

Hope this helped;
JazzLouise xo


I am 16 and am going to have sex with my boyfriend (protected of course) but do boys like a girl better if her vagina is waxed or does it really matter. I know it sounds weird but I wanted to know before doing anything! Help me please!
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Honestly, boys prefer it if a girl is hairless, but you can shave or wax as waxing can be very painful.

Hope this helped;
JazzLouise xo


Well, I am moving soon away from the person I love alot. He has been there for me ever since i moved here and his friends and family are awsome! But my mom decides to move due to really personal issues and there is no way to change her mind. Me and her DO NOT get along! Everday i go home after school and into my room and lock myself in my room and cry into a pillow. I have actually tried to commit suicide three times and I have been cutting myself. But I had quit cause i already 13 marks on my arm. But i feel useless on this world..like no one will miss me when I'm gone. I want to die but at the same time i don't want to face the consequences of hell. What should I do? I dont know why i have these feelings of depression..its not because of my mom.. I love her to death even though we don't get along. and I noticed that im going throught this at a very young age, 12 and a half to be specific. I dont want therapy because first it will make it worse and i will think i gone crazy and just cry even more. I feel like a mistake. Or that i have one of those illnesses that could be cured. please help me, i am scared that i'll snap one day and just runaway from home and on the verge of life and death. i am female. (link)
Firstly, never EVER think you are useless. Because you are amazing, and i can promise you that even though you may not know it there are so many people in this world that would miss you. I understand about the fact that you cut yourself and tried to commit suicide as many of my friends have also done and tried, but it is not right, at all. And these are things that you will regret, trust me. I know you said you wouldn't want therapy but it really does help. In situations like this you NEED someone to talk to and as you can't talk to your mom,these are the people that can really help and get you out of this state.
You are not crazy or useless, it is just that if you honestly do believe this about yourself then this is what you will become. So please, please take my advice and talk to someone, it doesn't even need to be a therapist, just someone who can help and relate because all of this staying inside of you will not help.

Inbox me if you need any further advice.
Good luck.
JazzLouise' xo




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