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Gothics


Question Posted Monday May 16 2011, 5:04 pm

Ok so i am tired of people assuming i am emo and gothic, there's nothing wrong with gothics or emos, but i am soooo tired of people thinking i am when i am not. SO my question is How do i make people stop thinking i am gothic or emo?????? please help me

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VoiceofReason answered Tuesday May 17 2011, 1:09 am:
The main thing is to relax and know what makes you happy. If other people can't deal with it or misapprehend it that is their problem.

The other thing is that once everybody graduates high school, they will scatter to the four winds and you will find that whatever you experienced in high school really doesn't count for much. So what you are dealing with right now is kind of a temporary storm that will pass.

You're the only one who can live your life. Don't let others interfere with it. Half the planet has IQs under 100, so consider the source when people rag on you about how you dress or what lifestyle you lead. Most people are herd animals anyway and are actually really chickenshit because they don't want to be alienated from the crowd. So take control of your life and push forward toward a happy life.

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Violet answered Monday May 16 2011, 8:58 pm:
i've been judged all my life being called emo and psychotic so i what you mean. the only way you can get them to stop is to show them that you dont care. they need to see that them calling you emo or gothic doesnt bother you. once they see that then they'll stop. the only reason they call you that is cause they know it bothers you. once they see that you dont care then it'l be no fun for them to call so it'll die out

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