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I have an opinion question for you.....I masturbate 2-3 times everyday, sometimes I jack off like normal, in my room or in the shower and sometimes I lay on my stomach in bed and hump my bed. Do you think masturbating that much is too much and do you think it's weird that I hump my bed?
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Hi, I am old enough to be your grandfather and hopefully the wisdom of my age will be helpful.
Let me start by saying masturbation is totally normal. Most teenagers masturbate, be they boys or girl, to relieve the sexual tension brought on by the hormonal changes brought on by puberty. A recent report relates that as many as 90% of the population masturbate.
The only time masturbation is wrong is when the urge to masturbate precludes doing everything else. Masturbating two to three times a day for someone 16 to 21 years of age is within the normal range as for someone going through puberty. As long as your masturbation does not preclude everything else in life you don’t have a problem, you’re a normal teenager. As for humping the bed; if it feels good continue; If not stop.
Masturbation is totally normal. Most teenagers masturbate, be they boys or girl, to relieve the sexual tension brought on by the hormonal changes brought on by puberty. A recent report relates that as many as 90% of the population masturbate. Now this would include adults as well as teenagers and such acts as mutual masturbation, hand jobs, fingering and oral sex. One could define masturbation or mutual masturbation as any sexual activity other than intercourse. Males, especially teenage males, need to relive sexual tension more than females do. Masturbation is a natural way to relive this tension.
Most religions including the Catholic Church condone masturbation; if this is so why do parents and church elders tell children it is wrong to masturbate? The only reason I can think of is the pleasure received from masturbating leads to wanting the pleasure of actual intercourse. In a sense there is a double standard here. As mutual and some people even use single masturbation as a form of foreplay, adults are telling children that something they do on a regular basis is wrong. Well if it is wrong or sinful for the children, would it not be wrong for the adults
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I don't think that you masturbate too much. I used to masturbate at 3-5 times a day before. I have slowed down a lot, maybe once a day now. But honestly, I don't think it is too much. And I can't really ever recall humping my bed, but I know people who do, so I don't think it is weird at all. It is all about what you like. I think I have been a lot more productive since I have quit masturbating so much, because I was not focused on sexual pleasure so much. I don't think it is weird and I am not saying you should stop, but for me, slowing down helped me a lot. And you're a guy, guys masturabte and hump a lot. I don't know how old you are, but I think bed humping occurs at all ages, and masturbation does for sure. My opinion is that you are pretty normal, and probably in very good company.
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