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How do I have lesbian sex?What should I know about sex?


Question Posted Sunday August 7 2011, 11:27 pm

OK so I am 16/g and im gay. Ever since I came out to my father we have been ok and close enough but I feel uncomfortable talking about this with him, as well as some of my gay friends. My school doesnt have a sex-ed program and the community center doesnt have a course for gays/lesbians. I am confused on everything at the moment. Anything and everything anyone could tell me would be useful about now.

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Additional info, added Monday August 8 2011, 1:26 am:
PS: Im a gay guy...i dont know why it changed it to lesbian.

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allaboutgay answered Monday August 8 2011, 10:53 am:
They changed it to lesbian because you put "16/g" which they assumed to be girl, not gay. I generally would just put "Age/Gender", and the question usually clarifies sexuality.

And basically you really just need lube. I have had sex with a couple of guys, and I learned that usually (depending on how big you are) if there is no lube it won't go in. And always use protection! I don't care if they have an STD or not. Always use it. You can still contract gonorrhea from anal sex. But the easiest way to have sex is doggy style, where one guy is on his hands and knees, and the other guys inserts his erect penis into his rectum. It is probably the easiest one to start out with. Another easy way is if one guy is laying down on his stomach, and the other guy does the same thing as before. There are also ways to have sex while looking at eachother though, and it is much more intimate and is not as much about the sex, it is also slightly more difficult because you cannot see the rectum and have to find it. The guy giving it (inserting) can be laying or sitting down and both partners guide the penis into the rectum. The reverse is also possible, but a little bit more difficult because legs can get in the way.

I hope this has helped. Inbox me if you need anything else!

And please remember, always always always use a condomn!

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