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Did I mess it up forever?
I'm 13/f,and had a friend who was 16/m.We were talking one day,and he asked can he make out with me.I said no,and he just said ok.But then after that,I never heard from him since.He didn't talk to me for 2 1/2 months.So I thought he was mad at me,because I wouldn't let him make out with me.So I went and bitched off to him.He wouldn't talk face to face,or on the phone with me,so I messaged him.I told him that he was a bitch,for not talking to me anymore,just because I wasn't ready to make out with him.I told him that I hate him.Then he came,and messaged me back the next day,and told me to never talk to him again,because I was a bitch.He told me that none of those things I said about him were true.He said he liked me,and stopped talking to me because he was in the hospital.So when I messaged him back,and said I was sorry,and asked why he was in the hospital,he told me it doesn't matter why he was in the hospital,because I didn't care about him anyways.Then he told me to fuck off.I felt so stupid.So I tried a week later to apologize,and he told me to fuck off again.Every since then,we haven't talked,and I miss him sooooo much.I liked him back too.But I just wanna know if it's too late for him to forgive me?Did I mess up huge this time?And if so,how can I fix things because I truly miss him? ='(
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hm, don't feel so bad if he won't tell you why he was in hospital maybe it's because he wasn't. At age 16 he's hot more experience than you at making excuses he could have said that so he dosen't look like such a big dick when you say what happened in your opinion. The point is I know what it feels like and you won't rest until in your mind it's sorted out so leaving won't help. Tell him if he was in the hostpital your sorry and was only angry and bitched about him because you sort of liked him too. say well whatever happened I guess we'll never find out how things would have gone if they hadn't got messed up. This will give him an option to agree or say well its ok and i guess we could try again, or ask him if you could start again and apologuise. But this wasn't your fault it's his for not replying for whatever reason don't let it get into an arguemtn and in future don't bitch ask why. good luck xx
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In the hospital for two months? With no way of sending even Text to explain what was happening? Oh please those are lies. Unless he has a serious illness, which he should/would have told you about then it's all lies. He is trying to make you feel guilty. Time heals all:) More then likely you don't miss him but you got use to being with him. It's good that you made your own decision not to make out with him, he probably just wanted something else with you. Good luck and don't give into his sick game.
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It sounds like some BS that he was in the hospital for two in a half months so thats why he didn't talk to you. He is 16, way older than you. That means he was probably just looking to you for an easy hookup. He wouldn't have completely ignored you if he liked or cared about you.
Now I don't think you should have called him a bitch because that gave him a reason to call you that. The way he is speaking to you, however, is not coming from a good place and does not show that he cares at all.
To be honest, when older guys go after much younger girls, it's usually because they can't get a girl their own age.
You probably don't sincerely miss him, you just miss him because you still think about the possibilities, and what could have happened. This has happened to me too, you can't forget about a guy when you didn't have closure. That doesn't mean things would have worked out or that you need to try again. I think it's safe to say he isn't worth it, and you should try to move on.
Good luck,
-Abby
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