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Okk so theres this guy that i've liked for like EVER && a half!! He's a player! && my best friends brother! We've only ever been friends but i like truely have some strong feelings for this boy!! It will probly mess up my friendship with his sister but thats a chance i'm willing to take!! My problem is he;s heard "things" about me, i'm not sure what exactly except for that these "things" have givin him the impression that im just the type of girl you can hit it and quit it with. What do I do to prove to him im not that type of girl, and hopefuly be able to get a chance with him?? (link)
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hahhaha ok ive been in this position sooo many times (not the best friends brother part---the part where you want that guy to notice you). so,
if he hasnt noticed you already but you really like him, you need to make him notice you. Don't wait for him to come around and wishh for a chance to be with him, do something so that he wants to be with you. Once he has made up his mind that he wants to be with you, he will do whatever it takes to make that happen. Start out acting reallly interested in him, and then as you guys get closer start pushing him away and act more uninterested in him. Don't be mean but just tease him. And if you get a chance with him, don't take it right away. Let him think that hee needs to work for a chance with you. And whatever the "things" are that he says he's heard about you, reassure him that they aren't true and your not that person. That will interest him even more to try to figure out what kind of person you realllly are. Most importantly, figure out how important this guy is to you and if he is worth ruining a friendship with your best friend over. And if you really like him, don't wait wishing. Make a move and do something that he will remember to hook him in so that things will hopefully work out with you two
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hi, so im a junior in high school 16 years old. i've made out with 5 boys only one and a half where my boyfriend....long story short. i like this boy a lot, hes a year older dropped out of his senior year than he came back. we hang out at LEAST 2 times a week.. hes unbelievably gorgeous.. model material -seriously. i reach his standards- i think. i'm 5"4 and 110 pounds, not so many pimples and i dress cool. i jjust need to know WHAT IS THIS? should i end it? i dont know what it is i see him in school everyday, s he takes me home if i need a ride and he's so sweet, but in front of people i dont know if it's shyness or something but he doesnt talk to me, he barely looks in my direction. all of my friends know about him, and many of his friends know about him and i. what are we, a thing? i hooked up with him, hes fingered me, ive given him a handjob. he wants to go down on me, i wont let him. is he in it for the ass? he's turning 18 in like 3 monthes.. i reallly think i love him, but he also hangs out with "shtoop'" =public school girls who give the boys ass. he doesnt have somany morals when it comes to that and claims that he doesnt hook up wiht anyone but me nnbut how am i supposed to trust him? if i hooked up with another guy (no desire to) but if i did hed probably get pissed off.. we hang out a lot, more than use=ual these days. we bbm during school an he gives me the cutest looks.. what is this? what am i doing with my life, please help me. my whole family dissaproves becasue of his reputation with girl; he used them and talks about it after.... i dont know what to do, i tryed stopping hanging out with him but i just cant do it i cant let go, i feel like ive found someone exactly like me not a soul-mate, but boyfrined material an adorable... hes so inntimidating and scares al my friends- he's really gorgeous. but i am not scared of him, i like him and how everyone;s scared, i like everything about him, i dont care when he smokes or drinks, but other girls--thats killing me trust, and what are we? please help as soon as you read this n be honest, i sound like a pathetic 13 year old but its my life. i live in a tightnit community and things get out and around quick.. i dont want this out, and if it does i want to have been his girlfriend..... help please remmeber same school, my family disaprroves, and hes unbelievabley beautiful- inside and out. sorry for spelling i cant spell to save someones lifee (link)
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if this guy is ignoring you in public, then whatever it is that you two are, it is not on the way to a successful relationship. At this point it sounds as if he is just using you. he may be sweet to you when it is just you two, but he is a teenage boy and he has alterior motives that doesn't include commitment. Stop making excuses for him and realize that no matter how gorgeous he is, it is not worth it to keep pretending that things will go further with you two. embrace it. The sooner you realize things will never be what you want, the sooner you can move on and start looking in another direction. The most important thing is to follow your heart. even though it can contradict what everyone else is telling you to do, stick with your gut and hopefully it will bring you happiness. Just don't act oblivious and really decide if this guy is worth it. If you decide he is not, move on quick and get over him because the longer you mope, the harder it will be to move on. Most importantly, do not settle for less than you deserve! No girl deserves to be treated as some guys "lady in waiting," if he can't accept you in front of his friends, do NOT let him accept you in the private of his bedroom. Be smart, make your own choices, and just don't make any decisions you will regret later. Your a smart girl, and you deserve to be happy, no boy is worth the stress unless there is ultimately something special between you two. And you have to decide that for yourself. Good Luck!
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