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Okk so theres this guy that i've liked for like EVER && a half!! He's a player! && my best friends brother! We've only ever been friends but i like truely have some strong feelings for this boy!! It will probly mess up my friendship with his sister but thats a chance i'm willing to take!! My problem is he;s heard "things" about me, i'm not sure what exactly except for that these "things" have givin him the impression that im just the type of girl you can hit it and quit it with. What do I do to prove to him im not that type of girl, and hopefuly be able to get a chance with him??
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hahhaha ok ive been in this position sooo many times (not the best friends brother part---the part where you want that guy to notice you). so,
if he hasnt noticed you already but you really like him, you need to make him notice you. Don't wait for him to come around and wishh for a chance to be with him, do something so that he wants to be with you. Once he has made up his mind that he wants to be with you, he will do whatever it takes to make that happen. Start out acting reallly interested in him, and then as you guys get closer start pushing him away and act more uninterested in him. Don't be mean but just tease him. And if you get a chance with him, don't take it right away. Let him think that hee needs to work for a chance with you. And whatever the "things" are that he says he's heard about you, reassure him that they aren't true and your not that person. That will interest him even more to try to figure out what kind of person you realllly are. Most importantly, figure out how important this guy is to you and if he is worth ruining a friendship with your best friend over. And if you really like him, don't wait wishing. Make a move and do something that he will remember to hook him in so that things will hopefully work out with you two
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Ok if this guy is a player he should have already tried to make a move.If so just keep pushing him away it drives a guy crazy when he cant have what he wants.And make sure you really have feelings for this guy,because guys like him make great friends but when put in a relationship possition they tend to break your heart.If he thinks your so easy make him back off of you and keep pushing him away that will prove that your not as easy as they say.Just dont give in unless you know he wont make you another mark on his wall.
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