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Hi My name is Lauren.Im attending college as an english major,and I hope to teach one day.Im a great writer,and I give great advice.My friends always come to me when they have problems.The only problem now is that I moved to Texas from Kansas,and I dont know anyone here.So I hoped I could at least help people who need someones advice.Im mostly good with relationship questions but feel free to ask me any thing.I will always answer your questions,and I will be honest.
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Ok, so my family has some....legends that are told to every generation. I always thought that they were just that: legends. But tonight I found out differently, and I am kind of freaking out. Anyone have any ideas on how to be able to...."sponge" this? Sorry, I know that's the wrong word, but that's how freaked I am. (link)
what do you mean sponge it? If your freaked out about what ever this is if its just weird and unnaturall you cant really do any thing about it its kinda just somthing you have to deal with.You should feel special that something interresting is happening in your life when absolutly nothing happens in mine if you need help just messsage my inbox i promis to do the best i can.


i never enjoy getting fingered
how do i enjoy it?

i hate that i cant get pleasure of it.
(fingered in the period hole) (link)
well truthfully i dont find much joy in it either theres really not any way to like it.Just tell your partner you dont like it if your like me you like sex more than 4 play (thats messin around)


Okay Ive posted my problem about this girl (Nicole) before but the situation changed... Let's see. She had been dating Kelly for three years them all of a sudden Nicole was intrested in me and we started getting really really close both physicaly and like emotionaly. So after a month or so she dumped Kelly and had said she wanted to date me. Now its like she's a whole new person and she doesnt want a relationship and she's just different. We still kiss and everything but... She still wants to be single which I get considering her and Kellys long relationship. But Nicole still cares about me and she wants to be with me eventually and I care about her. I just don't know what to do.... (link)
Well it seems to me she just wants to know she will have an option if she thinks some one better has come along.I know thats not what you want to hear but iv been that girl befor.Yes she cares about you but she dosnt want to be with you.If this is the case then honestly it would do you good to not put so much hope in your relationship,because your most likly going to get hurt.It would do you alot of good to see that you desirve a girl who wants to be with you as a cupple not just a friend with benifits.You desirve to be the only guy in her life its not fair to be on the side lines like you are now.Look what she did to kelly just because you feel like she wants you,dosnt mean she wont drop you like she did him.Go with your instinct if it tells you to let go then its best if you do.Your instinct is always right trust me when I go agianst mine its always a mistake and i pay for it in the end.


I'm not going into detail because I would end up writing over 10000 words. Short story.. I really dislike my life. A lot is going on and i cry myself to sleep almost every night because i don't like my life right now. I'm a senior in high school and a girl. People are usually stressed about college and where they want to go etc. but I have that figured out. SO i guess thats alright since i already know my future. I'm just not happy...

I have a boyfriend. BEen going out for a few months and he's great. sometimes he gets on my nerves and irritates me and we have some fights. but other times he's there for me and he's the best boyfriend i've had. he really cares about me and whenever i'm in a bad mood he knows how to cheer me up. i dont get to seem him often outside of school because i'm involved with other activities and so is he. my bff is irritating me. lately we havent been on the same page and been fighting a lot about random crap. parents are getting more annoying. i'm 18 so i am pretty sure i have some freedom and independence but according to them i dont because i still live under their roof :( a lot of people i know get to do things like drive downtown and go to parties and hang out at peoples houses until midnight but my curfew is still at 9pm or even 8. they wont let me do certain things like go to a friends house they dont know. or sleepovers. or go to a concert. or go to a friends cabin. or drive outside of my town.. pretty much no life and living in a bubble.. to make things worse, i dont really have many friends. i mean, i have friends but they're the people who i say "hey whats up" to in the hallways and then dont talk much outside of school.

i just dont know what to do anymore. i really dont like my life and no matter what i do to change it.. i end up making things worse. i guess all im asking for is some advice on how to be happier and cheer me up? i dont have much time for myself so my options are limited. dont have a job which equals no money. parents keep me in a bubble life. i feel like i'm suffocating and just hate my life right now. please help. (link)
Well to start off your parents keep you curfewed because your growing up and honestly there scared to let you go.Its not fair and its not right,but right befor I turned 18 my dad started craking down on me and setting weird rules that i hadnt had for quite some time.So it comes down to they just havnt accepted that your growing up and very soon you wont need them as much.Its hard to make them understand how you feel at this point.Hopfully your going to a college away from there or you will never get away.Are your parents not letting you have a job?because if thats it you need to try and talk to them about it.Instead of telling them you feel like your in a bubble tell them you think you need one because you need to learn more responsiblity.It should work tell them you just want it for extra money in college so you will have every thing you need.When there as controlling as they are its hard to find ways to do the things you want like party and socialize.Find a friend they know,or make on that is really good with parents that way she can be your aliby if you ever do want to get away.Other than that my best advice is dont be so focused on the negative right now,because soon you will be out in the world away from there controlling hands and able to live how you want.Just be carfull the world seems nice and easy but it really isnt.As for your best friend i know me and my bff are like a married cupple we fight alot but its like one min were arguing over somthing stupid and then all of a sudden were just laughing our butts off.If you guys arnt going to the same college or maybe you guys just feel like your about to be torn apart that could be what the minor irritating arguments are coming from.Just talk to her tell her how your feeling tell her you need her.If shes a good friend she will be there for you.


ok so ive been reading some of these questions and ive found your replys to be really helpfull so i have a question for you.
me and my boyfriend are having sex this weekend. and i told him i had a surprise for him meaning i want to give him an amazing blow job. ive talked to some people and alot of guys have told me that just going back and forth can get boring. I want to make it one he'll aways remeber and i want it to be so good that he's willing to do ANYTHING for me afterwards.
Other than the basicks : no teeth. and to make him feel big exct. thats all i know. what do i do to make him remeber it for a very long time? (link)
well truthfully im not the best person to ask but some of my own experiances are that the head of the penis is very sensitive to feeling and pretty much actually sucking not just going up and down and if you really want it to be that great come out and ask him how he likes it it might feel akward but im sure he will have no problem helping you make it worth while


I'm dating this guy right now. He's nice and everything but we've only been dating for 1 month. Prom dance is coming up this year and we have to pay the fees before the end of December if we want to go. I haven't asked him if he wants to go with me (he's a sophomore, and I'm a senior so I have to invite him for him to be able to go) because I don't know if we'll still be together then. Should I ask him if he wants to go to prom with me already or what? (link)
Yes you should if you really like him it will be worth it.And if you guys dont last you will still have the tickets and could always ask some one els.You dont want to miss your senior prom its the best one to go to.Its an ending and a begining all at once.Good luck and have fun


I've been dating this girl on and off for 4 years now. She's amazing, terrific, perfect, and any other word you can find to describe an angel. Today she told me that she things are completely over for her, and that she just doesn't feel the same for me as she did. This is a big shock because she acted like everything was fine and she was happy. I feel like killing myself now. I have been searching for some quick ways to commit suicide without pain but nothing seems right. What do I do? I'm so confused and hurt. My chest feels like she ripped my heart out. (link)
Losing your first love is hard,it is going to hurt more than anything you have ever felt phisically.But truth is all first loves come to an end some time.You should hold your head high.Every day you will feel a little of the pain fade,and honestly it will never be completly gone.But without that first love you wouldnt be the person you are today.Suiside is not a choice remember there are people that care about you,and would hate to lose you.Dont be selfish and end your life because it would be easy.If life wasnt hard it would not be satisfing.Its hard to still love someone who doesnt feel the same trust me,my first love was five years ago and I had to leave my home town to get away from it.Because even to this day it still hurts to think of him,and how happy we were.But I look forward to what the future has in store for me.I learned alot from my first love,like how amazing it feels when you give someone all of you.And how fragial love really is.So please find a friend tell them how you feel tell them you really need there help right now.Because as soon as you let go of that first love,another will find its way to you befor you know it.


My ex broke up with me 3 months ago...pretty long story, basically he broke up with me as he had a feeling I was gonna break up with him (true to some extent, I was crazily stressed with work & didn't think it was fair for him to deal with me like that) OK so I realize that was a mistake. any way he's tried staying friends with me but I have refused...all or nothing. I told him I want to get back together but he said he's not sure what to do. he's been saying this for 3 months now!

when we first broke up he didn't do much, but ever since I told him I went to clubs a lot, I've met new guys, he turned crazy and he's honestly out every night! more to the point, after I told him id gone a date with a guy, he started seeing this girl, took her on a date and stuff. thing is he doesn't know I know this (im friends with his friends) I know they text and stuff and it does really hurt because I'm only going on dates, not seeing anyone. any way a week ago he text me saying he loved me still, missed me, can't get over me, but he's still unsure what to do with us. at first I thought maybe he's doing this cos he's finished with this girl, but his friends said he still sees her! why is he still talking to me if he's got this other girl?!? (link)
Hes dating her to fill the void he has with out you.Hes telling you he dosnt know what to do because he wants you to tell him what he should do.You should talk to him tell him why you were acting the way you were,and that you didnt mean for it to turn out this way.If he still loves you and you still love him there is hope,and honestly its not fair to the other people to be with someone whos still in love with there ex.Sit him down tell him you love him to if you do,and when he says he dosnt know what to do tell him that he shouldnt give up on your relationship.Its not going to be easy but if there is love between you two it will be worth all the hard work and stress.


Usually I'm not in the mood to do it a lot. My boyfriend and I had sex a few times this month though. Now I'm 4 days late on my period and I feel really, really horny all the time. I've been having this turned on feeling for the past week now. My boyfriend said it's no big deal and keeps saying there's no way I can be pregnant since he always pulled out. I read in one place that pregnant women can be really turned on because of hormone changes. Am I pregnant? I just turned 17 and he's 16, almost 17, and we've only been together for 3 months so this is kind of scary. (link)
Relax is the first thing you should know,stressing can cause your period to be late.Secondly pulling out dosnt always work because sometimes a guy can pre cum which can get you pregnate,start using condoms and get on birth controll.You could just be really horny because your hormons are all waked out.Wait a few weeks and take a pregnacy test,there are dallor test at the dallor store.Have a friend whos 18 get you one.Best of luck


17/f

My mom wants me to quit my job because she knows that I am stressed out. She told me she'll give me 100 - 200/month. I refused because I don't want to take her money, I want to grow up and make my own. I get sick of the fact that she constantly brings it up, "Mary, maybe you don't have to work as much. I'll give you 100 - 200/month". Now, I was actually thinking about it. I mean, seeing how much work interfered with my school work. I'm one of the lucky people who did not get a phone call to get kicked out of the high school program I'm in. I'm pretty shocked myself. I'm barely passing half my classes. Now, I'm going to have to study hardcore for the next two weeks to pass this semester; or else I will get kicked out. What will I do then? I'm going to have to look for another school that would take my credits.

Yesterday morning I was awaken by my mom's crying. I never heard her cry before, I never seen her cry so hard. It was over money, she said her money disappeared. So I was thinking she was robbed. I was about to freak out, no... She hid money in her room somewhere and it disappeared. Who did she blame? My dad. She always accuses my dad. She said she worked so hard for the money, for me and my sister. If something happened to our car, and etc. It was for emergencies. She started saying how terrible and horrible my dad was, and she recently gave him 1800 dollars. So she called my dad and wanted me to listen on another phone line, he was confused. He didn't know what she was talking about. My mom had me search through her room to find it, if it wasn't there. It was him. I knew it wasn't him, so I had to find it. I found it. Now, she must've felt like she cried over nothing.

I told my sister about it, she was really angry. She was wondering how come my mom is always saying it was our dad. She always accuses my dad about money, and later on... And it always turns out she misplaces it. She came into my room saying how my dad this and that, this and that. I wanted to dieee. My dad came home and she automatically shuts up, and says, "if dad asks, say you don't know" and walks out. She's so paranoid. My sister says she needs to stop stressing herself out because it's effecting her health. I told her we should get her anti-depressants, she said she already was taking it. Whaaat? I was joking. I didn't think my mom was depressed.

My co-worker says that's normal for women around 40 years old, because they hit menopause, and they think their lives are over. But still, it's my mom. It's been bothering me for a long time now about my mom. And my dad isn't making things better, his skin is getting worse. I keep getting angry at him. It's allergies, he goes out into the sun and the garden and sweats and he rashes up. I recently put medicine on his back, and it got worse. It grew up. I asked him if he went out, and he said no. Dad... Don't lie to me, you did. I saw you outside yesterday. My sister and I tell him to stop going out, so he would stop seeing the doctor, and stop buying so much medicine. He never listens. He's too stubborn. Now, I'm just wishing that winter will just come so he would no longer go out.

Then I find out, he's borrowing money from his credit card company. That explains why we're in debt. My dad is retired, my mom refuses to give him money. My sister moved out. And I'm here. I feel like giving up on everything, literally. I'm starting to feel like God wants me to fail, just so I can learn from it or something. But I want him to prove to me that not giving up has it's rewards, because if I fail, how is that going to help me? How does that make me a better person? That's just going to make me feel crappy. The only light in my life at the moment, is my sister.. Who lives in another city now. And my boyfriend, but he makes me want to give up too. Why? Because he sometimes loses hope in us and himself. I don't even know what to do anymore. (link)
Never lose hope,I know some times life gets really hard but the rewards from all that hard work are worth it.And if your job is affecting your school you should cut back on your hours.Your co-worker may be right about your mom,so you really shouldnt stress about it,it only helps you lose focus on your goals.Your dad should be staying inside if his skin condition is that bad try talking to him and telling him your worried.Remind him that you just dont want to lose him.As for every thing els it sounds like you need to find something that helps you relax.It will get better in time,and right now stressing over it is just depressing you.Take a few breaths and step back and look at your self,remind your self that your doing all you can and it will be worth it.


i'm 20, in college, and live with my best friend of 3 years and two other girls. over the summer, before we lived together, she started dating this guy, and ever since that day, that is ALL i have heard about. i have no problem living with her at all, other than the fact that she talks about him 24/7 and i have no escape. its been a good 4 or 5 months since they've been dating [unofficially, mind you], and i thought all the talk about him would subside after a few weeks, but no. morning, afternoon, and night that is ALLLL i hear about. what her boyfriend said, what he is doing, what his mama is doing, what his mama said, what job he's doing at the moment, where he's at, blah blah blah blah. not only do i hear her talk about him nonstop, but i hear the same stories numerous times. and its just pointless stuff i really dont care about. she will come in my room when she's on the phone with him just to talk to him around me, or read me their texts conversations and i could really care less. he lives back home 3 hours away from where we go to school, and she'll go home every weekend to see him and text me ABOUT him while she's WITH him! it is honestly to the point that simply hearing his name makes me want to punch a hole in the wall bc she cant have a conversation that doesnt revolve around him. very rarely does she ask me about my life, and when she talks about him i am constantly trying to change the subject or will just flat out ignore her, but she just cant seem to get the hint. our other friends including one of our roommates are sick of it too, and one of them flat out told her she doesn't care, but me being the "best friend" i hear about it the most and at this point i really just want to pull my hair out. i have a boyfriend of my own who is wonderful, so its not that im jealous, i just want my best friend back. the one who i could have a normal conversation with, the one who i could hang out with and have fun with without her being a stick in the mud all night cuz she'd rather be with her boyfriend. at the end of the summer she went to the beach with me and my family, and i was excited because we normally are crazy and have soo much fun, but it was just miserable bc the whole time she was talking/texting her boyfriend and telling him how she just wanted to go home and would rather be with him. like she has NO life outside of him anymore. she's moving back home next semester to go be with him, and a part of me is sad because i feel like i'm losing or have already lost my best friend, but the other part of me doesn't care because if i honestly had to hear about him nonstop for another whole semester, i would seriously lose my cool. we're 20 years old, i thought this nonsense was supposed to be left in high school, but obviously i was wrong. i haven't said anything to her about it cuz i want to support her. i'm thrilled that she's happy with him and all that but im just SOOOOO INCREDIBLY SICK of hearing about it day and night. im just kind of worried about the confrintation because we've never had a fight [although i recently hear that she's been talking about me behind my back to my roommate, which doesnt surprise me since she's the kind of person who will say one thing to your face and another behind your back, but once again, i thought that should be left in high school, and she used to not be that way when we first became friends] and i don't wanna lose my best friend. sorry for the length, i'm just really at my wits end here! help!? (link)
As much as you dont want to fight with her you need to tell her how you feel.Tell her you miss your best friend,that even though she has a boyfriend there is an entire world out side of him.Just let her know you would like her to take an intrest in your life.That its not a friendship if your the only one doing the listening.Remind her that you do care some what about her relationship but you dont want to hear about it all the time.And if reason dosnt work then you have lost her for now.Trust me just because shes gone now doesnt mean shes lost forever.If shes really your friend she will understand if not then im sorry she just loast a great friend.All friends say things behind your back and most of the time they really dont mean it its just there way of letting off steam.


... been trying to get over my alcolhism and depression for months now. resigned from a 6-figure salary (on my own accord) because I couldnt deal with the daily pressures of work, family and my addiction. Am now at a point where I feel it best to end my life. I have a huge insurance policy that will pay off big! I have a wife, children and a extended family that love me. However... I feel so dispondent every day that I can't move forward. I want to pull out of this rut... but there are easier - quicker solutions that I've considered.
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Iv been there and seen it,Dont end your life because its the easy way.Life isnt easy if it was it would be dull and unsatisfing.Pick your head up and hold it high,be there for your family there probly scared to death of losing you to the drinking and depression.And your wife loves you or she wouldnt still be there.Your kids need you,do you honestly want them to spend the rest of there lifes without there father?Try focusing yor intrests into somthing you used to enjoy doing,like a hobbie or you could start excersizing.Excersizing gives you a sertian thing that helps make you happy.Put down that drink and go to aa yeah you might think its dumb and not worth it but there are people there who can help you.Put more of your energy into your family and dont think about the bad things think about the good things that make life worth living.Like your loving wife or you kids who dont desirve to lose there dad.Im young i know but i have seen it befor and if you were my dad Id rather have you as you are than your insurance.Please go seek help your family needs you.




Well, hi.

I've been in a relationship with my boy friend for 11 months now, and I love my boy friend very much. He's sweet, caring, sensitive, and very funny.He's had a lot of bad relationships in the past,that left him heart broken..one realtionship almost cost him his life. One of his ex's Breanna, well she's not very sane. My boy friends grandmother(he lives with her) went to court about the sitation that this breanna was sleeping with her step father, for the things she wants. Her step father was more like a jealous bf than a father. This father threatened to set my bfs house on fire. It got so bad, he was taken out of school. Now this girl was saying that all this that happened were lies, and that my boyfriend was stalking her? He doesn't seem like the type that would do something like that... Now another thing..when we first started dating, I was an 8th grader when he was a junior. People were saying, that his friend had a crush on him, and she was hanging all over him, and that my boy friend was cheating on me with her. The girl who was saying this was jealous that he turned her down for me. He didn't do it in a harsh way he just said " I'm waiting to go out with someone." ( At the time I was in another realtionship)So, people were saying this, and his friends confirmed that she was all over him, but my bf didn't like her in that way, and he shrugged her off at times, and he got to the point in telling her off, and making her cry..So I really love my boyfriend, and I don't know if I should be worried anymore or not..my best friend said I should move on..and if he did he did, just live in the moment now. He treats me very well, and I love him very much, I don't want to lose him..I just don't want him to get upset and say things like " You'll never trust me, you rather believe them over me." :/ What do you people think?
Thanks for all who reply xD

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Truth is if you keep worrying about it he will notic and it will just cost you guys a bunch of drama and unhappyness.If you trust him then just let everyone els talk.They only do it because there bored with there lifes and wish they were you.You guys have been together a long time and your happy with him your best friend is right live in the moment things are going great and i know you dont want to mess them up.Be happy and make sure you bf knows you care.


17 F

I recently had a dream that I can't seem to get out of my head for some reason. I've already looked up some of the symbols, but this is what happened.

I was in some sort of an attic room and there was a bathroom and closet. In the closet, there were two side doors, one on the left and one on the right. I opened the door on the left to see one of my male classmates, whom I do find attractive and respectable, dead. There was blood everywhere. He had committed suicide. I was PETRIFIED. I then opened the left closet to find, in the dream, his girlfriend who had also committed suicide; she was also covered in blood. I turned out of the closet to the bathroom to find a tub filled with blood and a dead baby.

I NEVER have violent or scary dreams, and this really freaked me out. I am not friends with this guy, and he's actually single right now.

What could it possibly mean? I am not sexually active either, so this can't symbolize my fear of pregnancy/abortion.

Symbols:
To see someone commit suicide in you dream, highlights your concerns for that person. Consider what characteristics and qualities in that person you may be trying to "kill" and annihilate in your own self. Perhaps you hope that you are not like this person and are making attempts to get rid of those traits within your own self.

- I respect this guy a lot, and I can't see any aspect of him that I'd want to kill. Also, I didn't see him commit suicide.

The blood symbol doesn't offer much in terms of this dream. I am not a depressed person; in fact, I've never been happier in life, so why did I have such a violent and gruesome dream about someone I care about who does not seem depressed/suicidal when I seem him everyday? (link)
It could be a way of you trying to kill your feelings for this guy.If your not friends i assume you dont talk at all and you just admire him from afar.Maybe you should take a chance and talk to him,get to know him.Just because someone seems fine and happy dosnt mean they are.As for the dream im not sure it has any meaning it could be just a dream.I wouldnt stress to much about it unless you start having alot of dreams like that.


17/f
my exboyfriend and i are leaving to college.. in august. but like we still have feelings for eachother but this is going to be hard to explain.. he doesn't turn me on anymore, and ive been seeing this new guy & with him i get these feelings again. ..my ex is always turned on and in love with me but like its weird.. i feel like we're going to see other people but no matter what like be there for eachother? i feel like im not done.. he will always have a special place in my heart, and no.. he wasnt my first love. i feel i'll always try with him i mean maybe one day well be on the same page and we can try to go out again? just opinions or anything on the whole scenario... its weird i know i just feel like were meant to be together even though i like this new guy and everything. like my exboyfriend and i were meant to meet just maybe not be together at the time in life? (link)
Like you said your self maybe its just not your guys time right now.Stay friends and keep in touch if you guys are really ment to be you will be.For now just foucus on this new guy,you dont want him to think your heart is some where els.Life is to short to worry about the little things to much.Just live it in the moment,and love like its your last chance.


I just want to be amazing in bed... I know I'm already good but I want to be GREAT!! Any tips you have will do... What do guys like when being given hand jobs and blow jobs... what feels good when the girl is on top during sex, what do guys like to see or do, etc when having sex, what can I do or say when having sex... ANY TIPS WILL DO!!! GIVE ME LOTS!!! ;) Thank you!!!

(Ps. I mostly want sex advice, rather than oral and hand jobs but give me any tips you have) (link)
Well the best way to find theae things out if ask the person your with what really turns them on.For every person it diffrent.Most just want to make you moan,others like it when you touch them in certain places.So ask your partner they might like things others dont.


i screwed up a really good friendship with one of my guy friends..

i'm not going into detail about it but basically i lost his trust and he wants to forget about me. i really really REALLY care about him and i tell him that but he doesnt believe me. he said if i want to earn his trust back, i have to prove that i care about him.

i'm not really sure how to do that. does anybody have any ideas or advice on how i can get him back and how he can trust me. i care so much about him and it hurts me to lose him. i hurt him pretty badly and i regret it. i say i'm sorry but he says its not enough. help! (link)
The only thing you can do is be there for him as much as you can.Dont do what ever it was again,and make sure he knows you really mean what you say.Take an interest in him life,or things he does.When you lose someones trust the best thing you can do is be there and wait till its time for them to let you back in.I wish there was somthing I could say that would be fast and simple but people arnt simple.The best of luck


OK, well it all started yesterday. My msn signs me out, or it looses the connect and reconects. this has never happend before. so i thought nothing of it...cause it was the first time. well im going to guess it happend 10 times yesterday. Id be on cam with my boyfriend, which i do every night and it never does that. then it would sign me out. so i restarted the computer. i have a vista computer btw. and thought i fixed the probem. but it did it 5 more times. again i restarted the computer (laptop) and it still made no difference. This is really annyoing and frankly kinda tickin me off lol. today i went on the computer hoping it wouldnt do it again...and it did like 5 times. I am always on msn. but this has never ever happend before and iv had msn for years. I do not have wireless. PLease if you can give me any hint as to why this is happening and how to fix it id be really thankful!. Idk if this helps, but my norton thinger says that there is low storage. but it wants me to buy more on the internet (which im not doing), could this be why? I really appricate your time, this will really make my day if i can get this fixed and stop happening. Thanks! (link)
I wish I could help but mine keeps doing the same thing please someone who knows about this please help us


ok like i wanna hold hands and kiss my girlfreind or hug her you know.but im not sure how to make the first move so i could use some advice (link)
Well you simply have to come up with the corege and use it.If she is your girlfriend there really is no way she wont go with it.Grab her hand on the way to class or give he a kiss when you say good bye.Its not as hard as your making your self think it is.Just relax and let yourself go.It will come naturally to you.


Okk so theres this guy that i've liked for like EVER && a half!! He's a player! && my best friends brother! We've only ever been friends but i like truely have some strong feelings for this boy!! It will probly mess up my friendship with his sister but thats a chance i'm willing to take!! My problem is he;s heard "things" about me, i'm not sure what exactly except for that these "things" have givin him the impression that im just the type of girl you can hit it and quit it with. What do I do to prove to him im not that type of girl, and hopefuly be able to get a chance with him?? (link)
Ok if this guy is a player he should have already tried to make a move.If so just keep pushing him away it drives a guy crazy when he cant have what he wants.And make sure you really have feelings for this guy,because guys like him make great friends but when put in a relationship possition they tend to break your heart.If he thinks your so easy make him back off of you and keep pushing him away that will prove that your not as easy as they say.Just dont give in unless you know he wont make you another mark on his wall.




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