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how do i make the first move
ok like i wanna hold hands and kiss my girlfreind or hug her you know.but im not sure how to make the first move so i could use some advice
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If she's already your girlfriend, it really isn't a big deal. Personally, I like when my guy moves his hand over and finally just grabs my hand. Something else cute that girls love, is when you surprise them and hug them from behind. As for the kiss, make sure that both of you are ready, wait for a good moment, and just go for it. Just go for a simple, nice kiss, not some huge, sloppy make out session.
-Laura (18-f)
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Hold out your open hand to her. Don't forget to smile and make eye contact :) If she is ready, she will take your hand.
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Sometimes, if you are having trouble reading signals from her, it is okay to just ask her if she would let you/ like to hold your hand. This will show her that you have respect for her and her comfort levels with taking these first steps in your relationship. Good night kisses ( on the cheek, to start) are always a good first kiss also. People sometimes expect a g-nite kiss after a nice date or evening together. Make sure you do something nice for her (flowers, dinner etc.) to help make it a memorable moment. Still, I think it is perfectly acceptable for you to just simply ask permission and show her that you want to make sure she is comfortable taking these steps.
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Well you simply have to come up with the corege and use it.If she is your girlfriend there really is no way she wont go with it.Grab her hand on the way to class or give he a kiss when you say good bye.Its not as hard as your making your self think it is.Just relax and let yourself go.It will come naturally to you.
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