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seeing someone else but still texts me?
My ex broke up with me 3 months ago...pretty long story, basically he broke up with me as he had a feeling I was gonna break up with him (true to some extent, I was crazily stressed with work & didn't think it was fair for him to deal with me like that) OK so I realize that was a mistake. any way he's tried staying friends with me but I have refused...all or nothing. I told him I want to get back together but he said he's not sure what to do. he's been saying this for 3 months now!
when we first broke up he didn't do much, but ever since I told him I went to clubs a lot, I've met new guys, he turned crazy and he's honestly out every night! more to the point, after I told him id gone a date with a guy, he started seeing this girl, took her on a date and stuff. thing is he doesn't know I know this (im friends with his friends) I know they text and stuff and it does really hurt because I'm only going on dates, not seeing anyone. any way a week ago he text me saying he loved me still, missed me, can't get over me, but he's still unsure what to do with us. at first I thought maybe he's doing this cos he's finished with this girl, but his friends said he still sees her! why is he still talking to me if he's got this other girl?!?
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Hes dating her to fill the void he has with out you.Hes telling you he dosnt know what to do because he wants you to tell him what he should do.You should talk to him tell him why you were acting the way you were,and that you didnt mean for it to turn out this way.If he still loves you and you still love him there is hope,and honestly its not fair to the other people to be with someone whos still in love with there ex.Sit him down tell him you love him to if you do,and when he says he dosnt know what to do tell him that he shouldnt give up on your relationship.Its not going to be easy but if there is love between you two it will be worth all the hard work and stress.
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It sounds like he doesn't like this other girl. When he found out you were seeing another guy, he got very jealous and wanted to make you feel jealous by making you think he is over you.
After awhile, he realised its not working and he tries a different tatic. You need to talk to him and ask him how he feels abouts you.
Good Luck :)
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I think you need to talk to him yourself, and ask him do you really want to get back together with me because it's been 3 months and your friends told me that your seeing some girl. You really can't believe what his friends tell you, but at the same time you have to protect your heart and make sure he's not playing you. Also you said you were stressed, so you might want to think about if getting back together is a good idea. You can get back together with him if you want to, and find healthy ways to relieve your stress. Just talk to him, let me know how it goes. hope i helped. Nikita<3
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Give him an ultimatum; either you guys are together, or you don't know each other at all. Either he's in a romantic relationship with you, or there is no relationship, period.
Don't allow him to waver or stall. It doesn't matter how much he claims to say he loves you if he refuses to act on it and leaves you hanging.
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