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Girl trouble and drammmma
Okay Ive posted my problem about this girl (Nicole) before but the situation changed... Let's see. She had been dating Kelly for three years them all of a sudden Nicole was intrested in me and we started getting really really close both physicaly and like emotionaly. So after a month or so she dumped Kelly and had said she wanted to date me. Now its like she's a whole new person and she doesnt want a relationship and she's just different. We still kiss and everything but... She still wants to be single which I get considering her and Kellys long relationship. But Nicole still cares about me and she wants to be with me eventually and I care about her. I just don't know what to do....
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the fact that she said she doesn't want a relationship show's that this girl either like you said got out of a 3 year relationship and needs some space and needs to hovero n you to get over him , OR she is one of the girls that goes and says she wants you but doesnt really and just plays mind games and want to go and see you and wont ever adte you and she wants her options opened , if shes okay with this hwole thing , why else wouldn't she date you? she cares about you and she knows you and she likes you but it seems she wants her option open if something better comes along her way and maybe its the fact of how she has been treated you know?maybe it's something that isn't worthwhile.well it depends how long ago both kelly and nicole have stopped dating you know? it's up to you if you want to find another girl or wait for this girl, you obviously really liked her even though its been 3 years but do you want to waste your time on a girl that you liked for that long and then gets otu of a relationship and says oh sorry but i want to be single? its up to you , overall i think you should either leave if you dont want to get hurt or wait for her or stay if you want to wait for her and see what happens
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Well it seems to me she just wants to know she will have an option if she thinks some one better has come along.I know thats not what you want to hear but iv been that girl befor.Yes she cares about you but she dosnt want to be with you.If this is the case then honestly it would do you good to not put so much hope in your relationship,because your most likly going to get hurt.It would do you alot of good to see that you desirve a girl who wants to be with you as a cupple not just a friend with benifits.You desirve to be the only guy in her life its not fair to be on the side lines like you are now.Look what she did to kelly just because you feel like she wants you,dosnt mean she wont drop you like she did him.Go with your instinct if it tells you to let go then its best if you do.Your instinct is always right trust me when I go agianst mine its always a mistake and i pay for it in the end.
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