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How to stop worrying about this..?


Question Posted Monday November 15 2010, 5:21 pm



Well, hi.

I've been in a relationship with my boy friend for 11 months now, and I love my boy friend very much. He's sweet, caring, sensitive, and very funny.He's had a lot of bad relationships in the past,that left him heart broken..one realtionship almost cost him his life. One of his ex's Breanna, well she's not very sane. My boy friends grandmother(he lives with her) went to court about the sitation that this breanna was sleeping with her step father, for the things she wants. Her step father was more like a jealous bf than a father. This father threatened to set my bfs house on fire. It got so bad, he was taken out of school. Now this girl was saying that all this that happened were lies, and that my boyfriend was stalking her? He doesn't seem like the type that would do something like that... Now another thing..when we first started dating, I was an 8th grader when he was a junior. People were saying, that his friend had a crush on him, and she was hanging all over him, and that my boy friend was cheating on me with her. The girl who was saying this was jealous that he turned her down for me. He didn't do it in a harsh way he just said " I'm waiting to go out with someone." ( At the time I was in another realtionship)So, people were saying this, and his friends confirmed that she was all over him, but my bf didn't like her in that way, and he shrugged her off at times, and he got to the point in telling her off, and making her cry..So I really love my boyfriend, and I don't know if I should be worried anymore or not..my best friend said I should move on..and if he did he did, just live in the moment now. He treats me very well, and I love him very much, I don't want to lose him..I just don't want him to get upset and say things like " You'll never trust me, you rather believe them over me." :/ What do you people think?
Thanks for all who reply xD



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chevybab answered Tuesday November 16 2010, 1:08 am:
Truth is if you keep worrying about it he will notic and it will just cost you guys a bunch of drama and unhappyness.If you trust him then just let everyone els talk.They only do it because there bored with there lifes and wish they were you.You guys have been together a long time and your happy with him your best friend is right live in the moment things are going great and i know you dont want to mess them up.Be happy and make sure you bf knows you care.

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