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choosing between a job i love or boy i like
i need hellppp and i dont know what i do
i work at a place that i realllly enjoy and i love all my coworkers. i've been working here for about a month but last week i got offered a job at another place where this guy that i have always liked works. We have always been friends but never anything more, and i was really excited to work with him and see him alot more. But the job is really boring and pays alot less. its not about the money but for so many other reasons i want to stay at my first job but everytime i think im going to turn down the second, i see the guy and imagine how fun it would be working with him, i dont know what to do, should i stay at the job that i love? or quit and work with the guy who i have always had a crush on???
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I would stay with the job you have now. Yeah, maybe it will be fun to work with the guy you like. What if just doesn't work out or he isn't exactly the guy you thought he was or you're just not into him anymore? Then you're stuck with the job that you don't really want. So I think you should stay with your job now. Choosing jobs because of boys isn't really a smart choice. It is smarter do be doing something you actually like than revolving it around a guy right? Good luck!
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I would say, stay at the job you love. You know waking up and going to a job you love is better then go wake up to a job you don't like doing, especially for a guy. And like you said, you guys are nothing serious. I would say, stay in your job. Anything can go wrong with you and the guy you have a crush on. He could get a girlfriend, etc. And you would definitely regret it in the end.
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Stay at the job you love if you go to the job were your crush is and something goes wrong like he gets a girlfriend or something youll end up regreting it
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Personally I think changing jobs is a bad idea. It would be one thing if you guys actually had something more than friendship, but to throw away a good situation like you have now on a maybe... that's just no good.
Think about it, what if nothing more happens? Or if something does happen but it does not work out. And you are stuck in a boring job earning less money. This is definitely a time to be pragmatic in my opinion.
Good luck.
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