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how do i know if he's a player?
I just started talking to this guy that I work with. We have been texting every day all day for about a week. We have talked about hanging out in person outside of work and I don't know what to expect because...This guy and I are definitely flirty, but I literally just got out of a 1-year relationship and I honestly don't know how to tell if this guy is a player and is talking to other girls or if he genuinely likes me. What are the signs -- how do I know if this is just how he is with all girls or if he has a thing for ME only?
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There are a few signs a guy can be a player. First, notice if he's always talking to other girls, or talking about other girls. Or the subjects he talks about. If all he's talking about sex or wanting to "get some" from someone, then he's most likely a player.
To be nearly positive, hang out with him, and if he seems to be texting other people all the time while you're with him, he may be a player. Ask him how many girls he's been with, after you've gotten a bit closer. Players lie a lot, and are very sneaky. So you can never be sure they're a player until they play you.
Just be careful and watch all of the moves he makes. If you really want to be straight forward, just ask him. Tell him you're not into being hurt, and you just want to know if he's got other girls too. Trust is key.
Hope this helps! Good luck :)
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