Question Posted Thursday September 16 2010, 8:55 pm
Ok I'm not quite sure where to begin but ill try to explain it the best I can you see I think I know a lot about people and how they live and the way I think and do things is better than what people do its like people are lazzy cheap and nasty and to me I'm usaly correct about it because It showes like for example when I'm on the highway and I see someone changeing lanes or exiting off the highway if there not useing there blinker I tell myself they are on there celphone and then I see them that's what they are doing they can't. Have one hand on the stearingwheel one hand with there phone glued to there ear and use there blinker they only have two hands and here's another thing I work at a carwash on one job I have 2 jobs but when people come in and have a faiely new car or truck and its like trashed I have a 15yr old truck and it emaculant and its always been that way even before I workd at a carwash working two jobs I still make sure that my ride is clean but I can tell how a person is just by looking at there ride what I'm getting at is am I just being stupid or what
NinjaNeer answered Friday September 17 2010, 12:16 am: You're being a little judgmental, and a lot holier-than-thou.
You can tell a lot about a person based on certain things about them in some cases. For instance, if I'm out with a friend and they're rude and condescending to waitstaff or salespeople, I lose a lot of respect for them because it says a lot about the kind of person they really are. However, saying that someone must be lazy, cheap and nasty because their car is messy or they're on their cell phone while they're driving is a little excessive. Maybe they just don't put the same priority on cleanliness that you do. For example, I'm always getting on my fiance's case because his car is always messy. Otherwise, he's a neat freak, he was just raised in a family where cars were not kept clean. He's not a slob, he's just different.
I'm not a religious person, but there's a great saying that goes "Judge not, lest ye be judged." Remember that every time you judge that person who comes into your car wash for having a sloppy car, they're judging you because you work at that car wash. They might assume that you're uneducated, dumb, too lazy to get a better job, when in reality you could be a very smart, driven person. Heck, you must be, since it's your second job.
Remember that these people are just that; people. Everyone is different. Everyone has their own flaws and perks. You can't look down on someone just because they're different from you. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
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