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dose this count as cheating??
ok so like today i went on a bike ride with my best friend her kinda bf like there talking and his friend. when we were close to being home we all stopped to talk and then my friend road off on her bike but i stayed to talk and like my friends kinda bf was like telling his friend to touch my boobs and i didnt care whatever. but the jimmy her kinda bf was like if u flash me i willl moter boat u and i rly wanted him to because i rly like him to so i did and he moter boated me then he was feeling me and i was like i gtg see ya later and i left.
so what should i do should i just keep it between me and him or tell her ??
and dose that make me a slut?
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Hm , well that wasn't good for a guy to do that for a ride , obviously he's not worth the deal. I think you should tell her because she should know what kind of guy she likes a lot and stuff , that's not right , don't let some guy like that fool you. That doesn't make you a slut , BUT you need to learn to stop going on people's boyfriends , how would you like it if someone did that to you to YOUR boyfriend , i'm sure you wouldn't like that , so don't do that to someone elses , and it will make life a lot easier and your friend might be mad at you , at least you will learn a lesson right. My advice to you is don't do that ever again , hopefully it's a life lesson , and please don't do that to your FRIENDS boyfriends.... he's taken hun.Many other guys other then him.
Good luck girl : )
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guilt is the worst feeling in the world. it wont leave untill you release your secrets. tell her, if you were her wouldnt you want to know? it would kill you if you didnt know because i bet she likes him as much as you do. from my point of view, he sort of took advantage of your body by doing that. dont let him do things to you you are uncomftorable with. your not a slut for doing it, you just made a mistake. maybe its not a mistake if you dont regret it. i just think in the long run youll feel better knowing you told the truth
xoxo
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To make it short & sweet, you shouldn't have let him do that to you. If you knew your friend liked him, and you let him touch you like that, that makes you a horrible friend. If you tell your friend, she will probably hate you for a little bit, if not forever.
You're a slut, back up off of people's boyfriend.
kthanks.
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Well, I'll answer the easy question first: No, that doesn't make you a slut. All of us girls need to get that word, "slut," out of our dictionary. Every sexual experience can have a positive outcome, even if it's only that we've learned what not to do in the future. When you start labeling yourself because of your sexual choices you allow your sex life to define you, instead of the other way around.
That said, the answer to your question "does this count as cheating?" all depends on what you mean by "kinda boyfriend." As a rule of thumb; if you wouldn't want your friend to do it to you, you shouldn't do it to them. You may have had a great time motor boating, but think of how hurt your friend is going to be when she finds out (and yes, if you value your friendship you should definately tell her the truth)about your wonderful afternoon. When a person you like flirts with someone else, especially your friend, it hurts so bad. It can really make it hard for you to trust someone again. Also, one thing you should remember; what goes around comes around, and one day it will be you sitting at home while your friend is getting fondled by your sorta boyfriend that you want to make your really boyfriend.
The best you can do now is damage control. You should accept responsibility, tell your friend, and leave it at that. Don't go into any games, like calling the guy on three-way so your friend can hear for herself what a dog he is. Don't forget, in this case, you're the dog too, so don't try to put the blame on him. It is fine for you to say that he started the whole thing, but admit your part in it too.
Also, most importanly-you did what you did because you thought the guy was cute and you wanted to--NOT because you wanted a motor boat ride. I know you feel bad, so you're looking for an excuse to explain why you did what you did, but making yourself out to be the kind of girl who would use her body to get a cheap boat ride isn't the way to go.
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