hey so i've liked this boy for a while now, about a year or so and like a few months ago we werent really talking and i saw him at this place my friends and i hang out, at first we were both kind of ignoring the fact that we left things off badly and so i wanted to make him jealous so i was with this other guy well he does the same thing except with my friend and now i think he likes my friend but i still have feelings for him and i feel bad because i think my friend feels like its her fault but when we are with him she is always super flirtatious and stuff i just dont know what to do ... is it eaiser just to forget about him or should i fight for him ... HELP
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? bethechange answered Saturday January 1 2011, 5:01 am: you're friend isnt a true friend if shes flirty around him. if she was really your good friend she should just know thats completly off limits, and if she doesnt tell her so at least you can see if she changes anything. if she doesnt thats not what bestfriends do. shell most likly use the excuse of you didnt tell me like i didnt see it or deny it all that she would never do that and your overreacting. you cant help what you feel so you might as well say something. you shouldnt have to make a guy jealouse to see if things work out because that just leads to missed messages and anger and everyone gets hurt. talk to the guy see where things are if there going anywhere or not but before make sure you know what you want to get out of the conversation eiather closure and possibly a friendship or maybe itll go better then you think
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