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Bad situation: He wants to have sex the first night because his ex did that.
Please help! So there is this guy I met off a site and he was really nice in person. But , he wanted me to go over to his place the first time we met and I wanted to in public so we did. So then ,after that we talked and stuff. And he started talking about his ex gf died and he wanted to marry her and he kept repeating it and said they had sex the first night and everything. So , he was wondering if I would be just as fast, but I told him no right? So like he said he does not want to wait forever... he says it makes no sense and everything. He kept asking to hang out , but I kept making up excuses...because he seems like he wants sex , but he keeps asking me to come over to his place and cuddle? I mean im the girl shouldn't he be coming to me? is he worth my time? he keeps saying that he really wants us to work and its not the sex that makes love and everything he wants something serious , but i don't know.. he even said he shaved his downstairs for me.... ah and he said if i came over he would half my shirt off in a bra. So I have no idea what I should do?
he also , he tells me im beautiful and he talks to me non stop , but is it a scam?
Thank you betty!
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I'm 4000% sure he's full of shit. He's feeding you BS to pressure you into sex. From the looks of things, you're not the only one he's trying to play. I bet when he sends you an enticing text, it's being sent to 4 other girls as well. Drop this guy like a bad habit and try to find something real. From the looks of things, even in the best case scenario you aren't losing much.
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To be honest this kind of creeped me out. I am curious to see what others make of this, but to me he sounds like bad company.
I think he is very much after sex. I have no idea if the gf story is true, but its total bs either way. Why on earth should that former relationship have any bearing on yours?
The way I see it, he tried to get you to have sex right away, then he keeps trying to get you over while making sexual references (the shaving etc), and somehow he claims that sex is not what he is after (or not the most important thing). I dont buy it.
Oh right, and he warned you he wont wait forever after you told him it wouldn't be right away.
No, this guy is bad news in my opinion. I think you should consider staying away.
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