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At 15 I have had sex with 5 people and oral with 7: What do you think about this?
I've been called a "whore" around my neighborhood and I know some people who think "oh she gets around". But I don't act that way... People who don't know me think I'm all innocent.
I'm 15 and I've had sex with 5 people(and multiple times), given oral to 6 or 7 including those 5, and I lost my virginity when I was 14.
At this point I'm having sex with my boyfriend a few times a week.
Is this bad? .. Like, have I done too much for my age? What do you think..?
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Be careful babes because its not always a bad thing but its never a good one...you understand? it doesnt matter when you lost your virginity its who you lost it to, same with all the other times you had sex. were these your boyfriends at the time? if so its rather OK, however it becomes a problem when it is not your boyfriend whether he is somebody elses boyfriend or single. Boys should have to prove their worthiness to you. You are this beautiful young girl sexy spunky attitude! you need a man that fits this girl described! not just any man who didnt even win your heart. Set your standards high now before its too late. Stay with your boyfriend and continue to do what you please. Also girls have a double standard---psht more like a quadruple standard when it comes to how many people you have sex with, guys think its cool when they have sex with many different girls but when it comes down to the girls they sleep with less is better. You are 15 and should have a feeling what love is when you have that feeling go for it, dont listen to your parents telling you that you dont know because nobody knows what you feel but you. Hun you need to put yourself higher on the pedestal make it hard for those wack ass boys :) you want someone who does the same, he watches who he goes out with, likes a girl with class. Dont think you are lucky because some boy thinks your sexy and bangable---make sure hes the one who earns you. Good luck girly. :)
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Since you asked, I think this is very foolish and unwise. You are putting you health at risk, but worse than that, you are devaluing yourself.
Just because you've done some things in the past is no reason why you have to continue them in the future.
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everyones diffrent. i dont think theres a right answer for this. i mean for some people they would be like wow thats so wrong for someone so young but others wouldnt. it doesnt make you a bad person. i bet your really nice and stuff its just a personal descion your making. be careful though.. guys can take advantage and girls can be really mean and even if you dont care it will still hurt. remmeber to anything you do will never be erasable. as long as your content with your descion and its safe it doesnt matter what other people think.
xoxo
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In normal society, having had sex with 5 people at age 15 is considered pretty slutty.
For your age that is a lot of sex partners. Plus the fact that if you lost your virginity at 14, you've had sex with 5 people in a year.
So yes, you have done a bit too much for your age. But as long as you aren't getting pregnant or STDs I guess that's not too bad.
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it isn't bad unless you think its bad. as long as you're not being stupid about it and getting pregnant or diseases. i know a 16 year old whos had 47 different partners. now thats kind of slutty.
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