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I get really shy around a lot of people. I hate it, because when i'm around a guy I really like I get shy. How do I become less shy. I hate it!!! I really need help. I hardly talk to people cuz i'm sooo shy. Someone please help,
And guys please tell me how I can talk to guys and not sound like an idiot. Lol. Like what should I say? I don't want to come off too strong or like be too shy, please help. Thanks a bunch!! (link)
I have the same problem and I just barely started to get this way after I had a bad experience. If you did (put it in the feedback) your mind is doing something call over generalizing. Its basicly taking that bad experience and putting it in every situation with groups of people. Talking to guys its pretty simple, Be Yourself. Thats all I want from a girl to herself and most good guys would say the same thing. If the guy doesnt like you for any reason who cares he probably doesn't deserve you.

(0)-_-)--- Pola Bear


I just got together with a new boyfriend. He is really shy, and I don't know what to do. He will barily hug my without cracking up, and he is really nice. I really love him, but I don't want to imbarass him in front of his friends. They make fun of him and I, and I feel guilty about it.I want to kiss him, but I feel like all his friends would never let him down for it! I've already ruined 2 relationships, I don't want to do it agian. can you help? (link)
I think you should ask him how he wants to go with this relationship. Also try to get to know him better so he feels more conferable around you (so maybe in a little while you can kiss him).

Pola bear


Is in normal for a car to leak water after the air conditioner has been used? (link)
Yes it is normal the A/C Pipes gather moisture around them and so, when it is off the water falls off and make a big puddle of water underneath your car.


I am going to a knew school this year, and I'm really nervous. I won't know anybody. Is it really hard to meat people? Is there a good way to make friends without making a fool of yourself? (link)
You shouldn't nervous meeting people is very easy if you just be yourself. Be the first one to say, "Hi my name is (your name here) what is yours" or something like that. It takes lots of courage to do that because I've been there twice so remember
1. Be yourself
2. You can pick your friends, You can pick your nose, but you can't pick your friends nose.
3. Don't be nervous

Pola Bear


Hay, I have this friend that his parents don't ever let me see him. I really want to see him and it is really hard to get a hold of him. He and I used to go out, but he moved away, and I just can't really see him. Can you help?
I'll rate! (link)
I think you should try to stay in touch with him any way that you can like send him letters, call him like two times or more a day, and/or, email him. When you do get a hold of him use that way every time you want to talk to him. Also when you want to see him (This might sound lame) find a way to have his parents or yours with you when you see him. I think his parents are afraid of him like kissing at an early age or something like that. So, when you see him keep your distance and show his parents that you wont do the stuff that they are afraid of.


i have the hicups what should i do to get rid of them please help i really really need it and i need it bad because i have them for like fifteen hours (link)
Take a glass of water and tip yourself upsidedown. Then drink on the opposite side of the cup that you usualy drink from.




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