Hey Everyone It Is Irishdude405
I am A very Understanding person that likes to listen to your thought and i can relate to many of you hear because I've been through many Situations that you may be going through. I'm not to into sports but i love being active. I dont Have a girlfriend at the current moment. I am Attending Highschool Next year and im Hopefully going to go to college raise a family and be a writer. Now Dont hesitate asking me a question They Will be Answered and They will have Advice for every specific Need!
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I'm so messed up I'm agnostic thinking about turning back into a christian or turn into an athiest.. I'm so scared if I turned into an athiest I'll go to hell If there really is a god... If I turn into a christian I'll be believein in something that may not be real? I cried about this.. Should I just turn into an athiest and if there really is a god go to hell for it.. Or should I turn into a christian and believe and god and maybe go to heaven if god is real? (link)
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Hey,
I'm a Christian and i'd just like to say..my life before i became a christian was a mess.GOD WAS WORKED SOO MANY MIRACLES ON ME..and i just wish u could become involved in a church and let God work through your life like he has in mine...Soo Just Pray tonight Pray to be filled with the wisdom to make the right decision and know that no matter what u choose..God and Jesus will ALWAYS love you..no matter what..but i'd really go to Christianity..Truly and Deeply..i'd go to Christianity
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ohkay, everyone is telling me that the world is going to end in 4 days (6-6-06) (the devil's number.) I AM REALLY SCARED OVER THIS. I CAN BARLEY SLEEP. im like pettrified. is what they're telling me true or is a myth? and do you believe it? and should i be scared?
thanks guys. (link)
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If you are a Christian than you know that our Lord, Our Father has prepared soo much to happen before that..yeah the world is supposed to end (( says the bible )) but there is SOO MUCH thats supposed to happen..there is supposed to be another WORLD war..The Temple of David is supposed to be rebuilt..but they've only found a few Pieces of it..theres supposed to be a massive earthquake..The Son of the Devil is supposed to be Born and he will rule through his lifetime and then there is the 100 years of light...and this scares me..you..everyone..but if we have faith and trust in the Lord then there is nothing to fead and that no matter what happens the Lord is always going to be here to protect us
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16/f
Okay guys, this might take me a while to explain but i really need some good advice from you's so im trusting ya's !!
Alright.. me and the person ive been talking to for the past 5 months became very intimate. His past girlfriend he dated was for 18 months, and after they broke up she became a slut. I'm not trying to be mean or anything but she's done over 10 guys and shes only 17. Now.. im afraid that when we had sex, he's still thinking about her because i hear shes crazy in bed. And heres the thing, i have weird nipples.. yeah i know it sounds retarted or whatever, but i have a big chest .. im a 36 C, and i weigh 132lbs.. and i dont like have a nipple.. noone knows this buy you's and im not really planning on telling that many other people.. When you press on it, it becomes hard and you can see the nipple, but thats about it.. WHat should i do about this ? i dont want to seee a doctor about it because not even my parents know.. and what do you think i could do to make him think im good in bed. please help me
ps.. this may not seem like a big situation,.. but me and my best friend are the "most popular" girls in our grade.. and the guys we are with, are also.. plus they are best friends.. i dont want my rep ruined
thanks for taking the time =) Thanks. (link)
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5 Months is not long enough in my opinion but if he loves you enough as he SHOULD FOR HAVING SEXUAL INTERCOURSE..then i think that he shouldn't/Won't care
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i just met this kid last week, he's cute, funny, nice etc. he was the one who called me to hang out 1st but i always feel like when we talk i am getting mixed signals, like he seems to like me but then he just signs of line or puts on an away message without saying bye & the convorsation just ends. we hung out twice last week wehn we 1st met (he asked me both times) i want to hang out again but is it too soon to ask him? i don't want to seem like a loser or to clingy. is it bad for me too call him? can anyone tell me what to do? & why doesn't he say good bye online? (link)
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Hey..i have been going through the same exact thing..and the best thing to do is just to wait for them..if they like you enough then he'll get back to you and if they don't...then he isnt worth your time
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Hay it's Running! Okay, about my x-boyfriend. he asked me out and then dumped my about one or two months later. he and I didn't live as near as we would have liked to. I had liked him for two years before he finally asked me out. I was "asleep" when He told my friends, and he also kised me to wake me up. I didn't even know that he had kissed me util he asked me out later that day. All of my friends were laughing when I woke up, and they wouldn't tell me what had happened. The day that that happened was the dance and it had just ended, so we went outside to cool off, and I fell asleep on the hill while everyone was talking. After I woke up I heard everyone telling him he should do "it" I didn't know what they meant until we went back inside and he turned around and asked me out. I found out that a week later I was going to move and he was really supportive. He stayed with me as much as he could the rest of the school year. Then over the summer he seemed like he was ignoring me. I would call and either he wouldn't answer or he would have to go like two minuets after. about a month later, I was at my friends house having a sleep-over, and we decided to call him and just say hi, but my friend told me she wanted to talk to him, and so I let her, not knowing what she wanted to talk to him about. But all of the sudden she asked him "do you still like Shannon? Because if you do, you certainly aren't showing it!" Then really fast she put on speaker phone. I expected him to say yes, and that he was just bussi or something. But instead he said "I only like Shannon as a friend." I was petrified! My friend hung up on him and hugged me. Now he and I are "friends", and so I invited him to my friend get-together. He got there late, because he had to go somewhere with his family, but he would be back in time to come a little late. After he got there, he acted as though we were still "together", but later he said that is how he treats friends. I still love him and I really want him to love me again. My friends were really mad at me because we were flirting at the party. I didn't know what to tell them. I just want to know if I did something wrong? Can you help me figure it out?
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Sorry that is so long but it was a long story. If you need me to tell it to you short I will. By the way, is the nickname thing a bad idea,Because I wouldn't want all of these people to think that I am wierd, even if I don't know them, and even if I am wierd! (sorry, that was my bad attempt at humor. I ussually am very funny, but not when I'm sad, which is very often lately.) Can you make me understand why he dumped me? Maybe if he acts like that with me,(and I know for a fact that is not how he traets all of his friends, because I was his close friend before he asked me out and he never treated me like that.) should I ask him if he wants to try again?
Thanks,
Running (link)
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It seems like when you moved that it was so hard to stay close in that way so it just grew apart i am afraid to say. I would wait for him to make a move if he is going to make a move. As far as your friends go, They'll get over it and you'll get over him eventually there will be plenty of others trust me! You shouldnt care what people think about ur nickname. You'll Be Running , Ill Be Jogging!
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This is Running, again. (by the way, is that stupid? You know, the nickname and all?) that is only one of my questions. My other one is what do boys like in girls, in general? I mean, I know that boys kinda like different girls for different things, but I just wanted to know. I had a boyfriend, but he dumped me shortly after we started going out and I never knew why. So of coarse, I wanted to know why he dumped me. so do you think you could help me out like you always do? thanks.
Running (link)
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Well i need a little more backround information on the relationship before i can answer that question. as far as what boys like in Girls, I like a girl that has a sence of humore but can talk about serious things. I like a girl that is Low key and wont Slap but will still joke and play around. This is the kind of girl i like but everyone is different you know? But send me a little but of information about the relationship and ill be glad to anser that question
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Hay it is Running. I have another question, here it goes.My aunt wants me to go to this birthdayparty of Presidet Hinkley, you know, the president of the morman church? anyway, I don't want to go but I don't want to tell her that because it will hurt her feelings! Should I go? I actually don't know if we will have fun time! I need an answer fast! (link)
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Well if it means this much i would just go. I mean it is only one day and it sounds like this means a lot to her. Just go because if you dont you will only feel bad if you dont
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I wrote this book about how I felt when my dad died, and I want to read it to my family but it has some revealing things and I don't know if I should read it to them. I don't care if my friends know, because they are in the book, and so they already know. Should I read it to my family. It is really imprtant to me, but I don't want them to know how I felt when my dad died. For personal reasons of coarse! (link)
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Sorry i couldnt answer this sooner i was away. But i think that if this is something that somethings you just like to have to yourself and your own personal privacy. But it sounds like you really want to show your family this book so they can understand how you feel and maybe you should. It may help you get rid of some stress and burdens that you have. Maybe you may want to leave out the most personal things that you dont want them to see. You ask I'll answer
Stay Strong, Irishdude405
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How do u ask a guy out? i really like him, and i kno he likes me, but hez really shy, so i kno he won't ask me out, and boyz alwayz ask me out, so i don't kno how 2 do it myself
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What you should do is ask one of your friends to ask him for you.
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hey irish dude.. i have a little bit of a problem.. my friend joe thinks hes really sexii but he is really just a PAIN IN THE ASS! how do i tell him that he isnt sexii! ((Guess Who)) (link)
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Well im sorry to tell you this but he is really sexi and i think your just jealous of his good looks nice Ass, and cute toes. Now you need to get over yourself and move on with your life and do something with yourself.
Tough Breaks Kid;)
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Hay, I'm the girl that my dad died when I was ten, I don't know if you remember me. Anyway, ever since my dad died, I've thought about death a lot. If your wonderin, yes I was and still kind of am suisidal. that is kind of what my question is about. I have only tried to kill myself one time. (don't go tellin nobody of athority or somethin, it isn't that bad anymore. and besides Only my closest friends know, and that is because they stoped me from the suiside atempt.)The quwstion is, how can I learn to no be suicidal, without public notification?
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If you havn't already figured it out, I am 13,Female, and very unhappy with my life. Can you help?
Your (sort of) friend,
Death (link)
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Well there are a lot of sites on the internet that explain. But Life can seem like a messed up place. and a lot of the time it is. But If we stay strong, Beleive in oujrselves and if we trust in God he will pull us through Anything there is no Struggle in like that is worth your life i want you to remember that ok? NOTHING is worth a life as precious and beautiful as yours, nothing.
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15/f.There is this guy that i have been liking FOREVER. For about four years now, and he is one of my best friends. He always flirts with me and calls me and invites me places. Last time we went to the beach with alot of other people and he only hung out with me. I dont know if hes just flirting with me or if he really likes me. But the thing is, i don't know if i should say anything to him because if he doesnt like me,I don't want it to change our friendship now. Im so confused. I don't know what to do. I mean i don't understand if guys think about those things totally different than girls. Please answer.Thank you (link)
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Well Boys CAN be hard to understand because boys dont understand what they want themselves. He could just be flirting or he could like you. Its hard to tell. But it sounds like he just wants to be with you when you are in a big group of people. So what i would do is have one of your friends ask one of his friends " Oh does he like* You * because he sure does seem like it" and then if he knows he'll tell her or if he doesnt he will find out because Curiosity killed that cat ya know. then have your friend be like Oh ok TELL ME WHEN U FIND OUT;)
You ask, I'll answer Irishdude405
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hey irish dude
i have a bit of a problem.. you see i really really really really like my friend.. lets call him bob and bob likes me.. but my other friend.. lets call her becki.. likes him too.. and i cant stand it! she flirts with him ALL THE TIME! and he flirts back.. and when i ask him if he likes her he gets all pissy at me and gets mad and claims he doesnt.. but wen he flirts with her.. he always tells me about it ((idk if its intentional or not because he knows im jealous))and he flirts with me alot.. but not as muchas he used to and not as much as he flirts with her:/ wen he talks to me, hes really sweet and tells me how much he cares about me.. but then he goes off and flirts with becki again! it really hurts me wenever i see them flirting because he knows how much i care for him.. it really sucks tho because he went away for the summer and i wont see him until school starts next year! i know we dont go out and that he flirts with other girls.. but i really miss him. before he left, he told me that he wanted to go out with me and i told him i did too, but he said that he doesnt want to go out until he gets back so he doesnt make a stupid move while hes gone so he doesnt hurt me..but i dont wanna wait forever and i dont wanna sit around and mope all summer! what should i do? please help me! 8(
- confused and heartbroken 14 year old (link)
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Hey this is a pretty sucky situation that many people go through. People can have flirty personalitys but its not flirting when he is telling you how much he cares about you and he wants to stay with you, He truly seems like he likes you. Well why dont you turn the tables and you flirt with other guys and make him squirm. If he truly likes you and when you flirt with other guys he wil ask you if you like them. This kid just sounds like a flirt,but i think he truly genuinly likes you.
You ask, I'll answer Irishdude405
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Same poster as "Sordid Love Polygon."
I'm eighteen years old, female, and I was unpopular at my high school. Somehow, however, I ended up being friends with a lot of the football players. I got really close to one of them, Alan; he ended up becoming one of my best friends. He's the perfect man in every way--smart, funny, cute, nice--except that he's OBBSESSED with SEX.
Alan has a girlfriend, Bella. She's a nice girl, and I like her as a friend, but the two are toxic to one another. When they have problems, it's like all the life gets sucked out of him. They're really harmful to each other.
Even when they break up, he always has other girls in line... (Naomi, for example). He's got a reputation for being able to get anyone to sleep with him... sex is a huge part of his life.
Now that I've graduated, I find that I'm... in love with him. I think about him every day... When I’m not thinking about him, I’m thinking about these two characters from this game I like who are just like him and me. I really care about him... and I think he knows it, since I kissed him once. But he has a girlfriend. Even if he didn’t, I’m waiting until marriage to have sex, and I'm afraid he would convince me to do something I don't want to.
I know I can't be with Alan. I don't want to damage my friendship with him or Bella, and I know he’s not right for me. But I don't know what to do. These feelings I have for him are making it hard for me to deal with other guys, and just thinking about not seeing him every day in school is killing me. I guess what I want to know is, how do I get over a guy who doesn't like me anyway? (link)
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The best way to get over a guy is getting to know and hanging out with other guys. You want to stay away from him by doing other things so your not thinking about him all the time. I hope things turn out alright.
You ask, I'll answer
Irishdude405
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Heyy! I am a 14 year old girl
I have a MAJOR problem... I have a boyfriend of almost 5 months and we are really happy! He was my first kiss...let alone that but we haev madeout and french kissed! which sounds like alot but when you see how happy we are you could see why we have done that! The only problem is our parents dont know and we dont plan to tell them any time soon...both of us arent supposed to have a gf/bf until we are 16 or 17.... we are seriously meant for each other and he says he loves me and i love him...i haev never felt this way!
WHAT SHOULD I DO! I dont know if we shoudl tell our parents or just wait to tell them...what would you do???? any advice would be helpful!
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You should wait to tell them. My friend is in the situation and her parents wont let her go anywhere if her boyfriend is there. Just keep things on the Down Low for a while. But they love eachother a great deal and they have a true relationship.
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I wrecked my dad's car this morning, and he's out of town until tomorrow morning. I haven't got the guts to call him and tell him about it, cause there's a huge dent in it and the garage door is messed up. I also pulled the bike racks off the walls. I know that I'll be in big trouble if I wait til he finds out, but I really don't know what to tell him on the phone. I feel so bad. HELP ME!
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Eeeek, "Dad listen dont get mad or anything but (( Start Crying)):) I accidently dented your car and damaged the garage door ILL PAY FOR EVERYTHING Im so so sorry!!!!!!!!!" ( Cry ) this will make them feel bad but prepare for some fireworks!
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i babysit 2 kids once a week for an hour (girlsages almost 5 and almost 3) They are lots of fun but we always play the same game (dogs) Im starting to get really bored with it but i dont no what else to play. i dont what to go buy craft stuff or anything i just want some new idea or something. They have low attention spans for the most part and they arent on the same skill/play level so it sometimes makes it hard. what do i do (link)
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Yes kids can get very caught up in the simplest most boringest games ever. Umm bring them outside and play one,two three red light (( idk if you know how to play but your at one side and there at another you turn around and go one...two...three...REDLIGHT and they have to try to tag you but when you say redlight they need to freeze.)) then there is simon says and all the games that are good for the outdoors( i play these games with my cousins who are 6 and 2 going on to 3 and THEY LOVE IT!!!!! have fun and talk to me if u need more help
You ask, i'll answer Irishdude405
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sooo many but i feel nothing......
i dont kno if yall have this problem but all my guy friends are so close to me but everyone in a they will fall for me !! and this time 4 of my guy friends like me!! jordan .. brenden ... dylan ... & lee and there my friend and all of them kall me all the time and text me on my cell!! they all want to be wiff me and i dont kno should i go out wiff one of them ... and if i do wut will my other guy friend think!! i have already been out with jordan ... and that didnt work to well because i dont like shy guyz because i making A-L-L the moves and were best friends and we kiss and it was werid so i ended that! and i have goon out wiff lee before 2 and we have kissed but it was werid and we liked being friends better! so that ended and i have been out with dylan2 and we didnt do mch but i still dumped him all of thses guy i have been out wiff plenty of time!!!! except breneden and i dont kno wut to do!!! and i hate being friend with benfiet with all of them cuz we tried that t it go S-U-P-E-R old and i felt bad! but anywayz can yall help me i dontkno but to do turn um all down so i dont hurt someone ... play along wiff all of them cuz its summer ... or just say yea to one of um !!!???!!! thx so much I RATE HIGH!
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Well i wouldnt go out with brenden just because from the sounds of it, it seems that you'd much rather stay friends. I would mess around the summer and stay single and wait to find out what happens and who you like over the summer ok?
You ask, Ill Answer
Ask me anything anytime
~Irishdude405~
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ok, i have a boyfriend but he isnt the hottest thing in the world. a few people think he is kind of hot, though. anyway, i have this one guy friend that likes me, and always makes fun of the way my bf looks. he is friends with my brother and myself, and lives next door so is at mh house 24/7 and plans on making trouble whenever my bf comes over. it's very annoying. any help?
also, a few other girls i am friends with next door want to meet him and i know they will not be the nicest about his looks probably. i'm shallow, and i know i shouldnt care, but any advice? thank u very much. goodbye. (link)
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Your guy friend is making fun of you because he is jealous because of your boyfriend. Boys will always make fun of someones boyfriend if they are jealous or feel insecure about themselves its weird but its their own way of making themselves feel better. and the girls seem like trouble but you shouldnt care because if you like your boyfriend your the only one that needs to like him (( besides his like mom or dad )) lol
Irishdude405
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My boyfriend is 16 and he has a anger/authority problem. His name is John. He has been to the jdc 5 times and boot camp 3 times. I was just wondering if you think that will eventually cause a problem in our relationship or if it could cause him to get violent with me?
14/f P.S. we have been together almost 2 months now. (link)
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i think you should get away from him. It is a ticking time bomb. But the only thing im worried about is your safety if you do break up with him.Idk But tell him that his attitude makes you feel unsafe and that it is hard to trust someone with an anger like that. Watch yourself!
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