i dont kno if yall have this problem but all my guy friends are so close to me but everyone in a they will fall for me !! and this time 4 of my guy friends like me!! jordan .. brenden ... dylan ... & lee and there my friend and all of them kall me all the time and text me on my cell!! they all want to be wiff me and i dont kno should i go out wiff one of them ... and if i do wut will my other guy friend think!! i have already been out with jordan ... and that didnt work to well because i dont like shy guyz because i making A-L-L the moves and were best friends and we kiss and it was werid so i ended that! and i have goon out wiff lee before 2 and we have kissed but it was werid and we liked being friends better! so that ended and i have been out with dylan2 and we didnt do mch but i still dumped him all of thses guy i have been out wiff plenty of time!!!! except breneden and i dont kno wut to do!!! and i hate being friend with benfiet with all of them cuz we tried that t it go S-U-P-E-R old and i felt bad! but anywayz can yall help me i dontkno but to do turn um all down so i dont hurt someone ... play along wiff all of them cuz its summer ... or just say yea to one of um !!!???!!! thx so much I RATE HIGH!
Razhie answered Thursday July 7 2005, 10:18 pm: Stop leading them on. You clearly on seriously interested in any of them (or else you would have said so right?) So stop wasting your (and thier) time.
Be friends, just friends, or else you will hurt thier feelings (and probably be called a slut, cause hey, friends with benifits with four guys? that is pretty sluty behavoir).
breath_less2164 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 10:14 pm: ight, this is a hard one but my friend hav the exact same problem. Ok, i know this is probably wut you don't want to hear but you have to do wut feels best. I kno you think thats stupid bc/ you asked this question bc/ you needed help but you can't go out wiht a guy u don't like. And if you keep on being friends wiht benifits wiht all 4 guys people might take you as a slut. In my opinion i think you should turn them all down, and jus be friends, not friends wiht benefits and see where it leads. you might find out that you rele like 1 of them! sry, that was kinda confusing..lmao. good-luck<3!
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