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boys (again)


Question Posted Saturday July 23 2005, 8:38 pm

Hay it's Running! Okay, about my x-boyfriend. he asked me out and then dumped my about one or two months later. he and I didn't live as near as we would have liked to. I had liked him for two years before he finally asked me out. I was "asleep" when He told my friends, and he also kised me to wake me up. I didn't even know that he had kissed me util he asked me out later that day. All of my friends were laughing when I woke up, and they wouldn't tell me what had happened. The day that that happened was the dance and it had just ended, so we went outside to cool off, and I fell asleep on the hill while everyone was talking. After I woke up I heard everyone telling him he should do "it" I didn't know what they meant until we went back inside and he turned around and asked me out. I found out that a week later I was going to move and he was really supportive. He stayed with me as much as he could the rest of the school year. Then over the summer he seemed like he was ignoring me. I would call and either he wouldn't answer or he would have to go like two minuets after. about a month later, I was at my friends house having a sleep-over, and we decided to call him and just say hi, but my friend told me she wanted to talk to him, and so I let her, not knowing what she wanted to talk to him about. But all of the sudden she asked him "do you still like Shannon? Because if you do, you certainly aren't showing it!" Then really fast she put on speaker phone. I expected him to say yes, and that he was just bussi or something. But instead he said "I only like Shannon as a friend." I was petrified! My friend hung up on him and hugged me. Now he and I are "friends", and so I invited him to my friend get-together. He got there late, because he had to go somewhere with his family, but he would be back in time to come a little late. After he got there, he acted as though we were still "together", but later he said that is how he treats friends. I still love him and I really want him to love me again. My friends were really mad at me because we were flirting at the party. I didn't know what to tell them. I just want to know if I did something wrong? Can you help me figure it out?
P.S.
Sorry that is so long but it was a long story. If you need me to tell it to you short I will. By the way, is the nickname thing a bad idea,Because I wouldn't want all of these people to think that I am wierd, even if I don't know them, and even if I am wierd! (sorry, that was my bad attempt at humor. I ussually am very funny, but not when I'm sad, which is very often lately.) Can you make me understand why he dumped me? Maybe if he acts like that with me,(and I know for a fact that is not how he traets all of his friends, because I was his close friend before he asked me out and he never treated me like that.) should I ask him if he wants to try again?
Thanks,
Running


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Irishdude405 answered Saturday July 23 2005, 8:48 pm:
It seems like when you moved that it was so hard to stay close in that way so it just grew apart i am afraid to say. I would wait for him to make a move if he is going to make a move. As far as your friends go, They'll get over it and you'll get over him eventually there will be plenty of others trust me! You shouldnt care what people think about ur nickname. You'll Be Running , Ill Be Jogging!

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